When the narc's minions finally believe you!

I won't always make so many threads. lol But had to share this bit of news. So, as you all know, most of you know, I went NC with the n's and my 'mutual' friends. It was for the best. They just wanted to drum up drama. Gossip...you know what I'm talking about, if you have mutual friends with your ex's. That said, I remember feeling so alone about at the two month mark...maybe three. (It's been over 4 months since our breakup) Like no one believed what I was telling them about the ex N. I never labeled him, nor name called him, but I told the truth about how he treated me...how we truly ended. I was told by a few that he made up the ending to the story...so be it. But, now that I have healed...I no longer care if they believe me or not. I know what happened. I remember telling a friend...''I know, what I know.'

Fast forward to today. I got a text from someone I went NC with, someone who at every turn, wanted to tell me about the ex N. She told me today, that he embarassed her on his FB page, insulted her...and her bf. Basically a word war started on his FB page, between my friend, her bf and the ex N. The narc's words were heartless...cold...horrible...when I read them, it sent chills up my spine as remembering how horrible those words were when directed at me. I did not write her back, everyone. And I won't. I can't explain it, but there's a coldness in me now. And it's not all bad. It's necessary. I don't want these people in my life. I think she shared this with me, as her way of saying...I believe you, now.

I do feel for her, but it's interesting...guess she never thought he would hurt her. So, things do come around full circle.

ps--If this all wasn't so sad, it would make a great comedy screenplay. Can't believe I dated this guy. I really can't. The things that come out of his mouth...horrible. Calling people hurtful names; in hearing this story, it's even low for him. THEY NEVER CHANGE!!!