What Would You Do?
What Would You Do?
Today I got down my Christmas stuff for the season. I put up a little "Charley Brown Christmas Tree" that I bought this year. I'm sure you all know the kind of tree...it has about one branch, holds about one ornament, and uses about two light bulbs. lol. I simply didn't want to use the huge tree that we'd had for years. I, also, didn't want to think about the memories with xnh and his kids. For me, buying this little tree was my way of "starting fresh". I'm doing Christmas MY way this year. :)
Last year, xnh pretty much drove me out of my own home on Christmas day by insisting his P daughter be in our house without my agreement. Basically, xnh told me she was coming, and if I didn't like it I could shove it up my a$$ and go away. To quote xnh, "He would take TEN of his P daughter over ONE of me any day." Yep, I should have definitely listened to THAT red flag. I'd thrown his P daughter out of the house over a year before because she was doing drugs, and I had also ended any relationship with her at that time. Last Christmas, I went to my parents house without xnh or his kids, and I, also, swore never again would I be shunned from my own home (and yes, I own it solely NOT xnh). It was NOT one of my favorite Christmases.
Today went really well for me. I was actually very contented and at peace. It was a happy day. For a change, I got to decorate my tree with my own favorite ornaments instead of everything being decorated in "early Disney" like usual. Narc xmil slathered xnh, and both of his kids, with ornaments SHE liked (Disney). Just FYI, his kids are almost 18 and 21 years old. It's NOT like they're really into Mickey Mouse. Goth whore and iPhones are more like it. lol.
As I was unpacking Christmas ornaments, I found an old Barbie ornament that belongs to xnh's hideous P daughter, and a CD of photos from one of xnh's family 4th of July picnics. My quandry is "Do I return this stuff or do I just...not?" I guess my desire to be "nice" is fighting with NOT wanting to break NC is any form. If I return it, xnh is highly likely to take it as an invitation to contact me using the disguise of saying "thanks". I've just gotten him to point where he won't even speak to me, and I LIKE it that way. So my question to you guys is "What would you do?"
mystery woman
Hiya mystwoman - in my opinion, I'd get rid of both items
Ava
Mystwoman,
Thanks, MsVulcan. That's
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
I had something of my XN's,
I'm not convinced that
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.