What kind of tactic is this?

Just a game. Prada is pretty expensive and if it wasn't you spraying it all over his apartment he wanted you to wonder who did. No Contact was smart that prada thing was meant to make you uncomfortable. they use crazy talk to confuse you and then they feel in control If he contacts you in the future turn it back on him if you feel like or just hang-up. For instance in the Prada case you could respond, "did that happen to you also, it must be some kind of promotion, it's all over my place too." they don't like confusion sent in their direction- he will stop calling. they also don't like conversational control which you can maintain by always answering his questions with a question. He asks," Did you spray Prada", you answer "did that happen to you too?" What about telling him it was in the newspaper that there is a serial killer who sprays Prada the day before he murders his victims. Now when you read this you can see how crazy his game is.

I didn't realise that they use the same lines. Mine didn't do this exact one.. but after going through his emails (why did I bother??) I realise he said the same thing to us all. Urgh. I honestly didn't realise that someone could be that calculated, 'cos when I respond to people, it's generally about them and me, the moment, my relationship with them. With narcs, it's a well-rehearsed game.

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wanting to get a reaction from you, any type of response, tell him you changed perfumes.

Its an excuse a reason to contact you. They always have really really really stupid reasons for contact. He just wants to make sure you are still gonna answer his calls. And maybe a weak attempt at letting you know he's thinking about you. He is an idiot. They all are.

It's the oh brother tactic...! He's trying to insinuate there is another woman who has access to his apartment in order to keep you in the crazy-making loop, sparking jealousy, trying to make you feel like crap even more...and an icidious way to abuse you further....even though he's D&D'd you. Mine D&D'd me, and wanted me back a week later saying it was all a big mistake. What kind of tactic is that?? Stupid-ass N deformed brain tactic, that's what.