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What the hell?!!

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#1 Jul 1 - 7AM
Littleone
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What the hell?!!

For those who know my story, i have a child with EXN.
EXN has spent plenty of time being nasty and saying it's my fault the child doesn't have a bond with him blah blah blah.
From his perspective anyone would believe that because I have kept him from seeing his kid much because he is an abusive ASSHOLE

anyway, my lawyer advised me to break no contact to offer him the opportunity to see his child regularly (because if he takes me to court i would Lose all control of the situation)
So I did and guess what- SILENCE!!! WTF

I know for a fact he is not taking me to court.

Our little boys birthday is in a week and I initially offered him a special birthday visit which after much game playing- the n accepted happily. Now though, when presented with the opportunity to get to know his son and see him regularly- he is silent??? WHAT THE HELL?!

Jul 1 - 5PM
Littleone
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Thanks everyone, Its so

Thanks everyone, Its so frustrating!! It hasn't been ages or anything yet but I really thought he would jump at it! I really don't see what he has to think about! The only thing is he probably doesnt want my parents there to supervise... But that's what has happened in all the prior visits. My son has separation anxiety so they HAVE to be there until a relationship is formed. Ugh... Guess I'm forgetting he is just not normal!
Jul 1 - 9AM
Sparrow
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Couldn't agree more with

Couldn't agree more with Hunter and Sara! You did what you were advised to do, and he is playing games. Definitely document like the girls said. Document EVERYTHING!!!
Jul 1 - 8AM
Hunter
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I swear they are all the

I swear they are all the same. Whatever, Document and move on! Hunter
Jul 1 - 7AM
sara-smile
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Narc Games

It's all games! Arrgghhhhh! I hate them! They can't even act normal or like a decent human for their own kids! You tried to do right so DOCUMENT it just in case he does drag you into court and go NC again. You did what your lawyer said and he acted like an ass! It's all a game to them. Even with their kids.