What is he up to?

Ok I just got out of my relationship with my N like a month ago but this has been going off and on for 6 years. A month ago he tells me he wants a divorce, now we have only been married a year and a half. I had no idea he was a narcissist. I only just came across this information shortly after me and my children had to move out of his house again. I see now all the red flags I ignored thinking I was the one to blame for all the break ups. When I think of what he put my kids through I could scream. I decided to go no contact so my brother and other friends went and moved all of my stuff out of his house , and would you believe he calls me twice that night over things like I can't believe you took the dish washing liquid and another phone call was you took the sheets. He wanted me to go back over there do that we could talk. I said hell no I refuse to go back there for any reason . This is the most contact he's made with me since he told me he wanted a divorce . What in the hell is his problem ? What is he trying to do?