what does a narc gain from carrying on with his charade
what does a narc gain from carrying on with his charade
what does a narc, like my hN, gain from carrying on with his big charade? Does he think his lies will become the truth? Does he think, once the lie is found out, he will find another excuse to continue? For example, my hN continues to say to me and our daughter, he is getting his own place, he wants out of his relationship with the whore, and swears he will be in his own apt before Thanksgiving (needless to say, he has no extra money after paying all of our bills here) does he think he will conjure up another lie or excuse when the holidays roll around and he doesnt have his own place? what does a narc gain from their charade, yes, i know, supply, but supply runs out, when one is found out. For example, if he goes back on his word and is still living with the whore during the holidays, my daughter told him she would never forgive him and would not want to see him anymore, does he think he can fool her with some story of having no money, wants out, but has no where to go, etc....does he think i wont call him on it? what do they gain from all of this, knowing they will be found out if they dont come through with their promises? short stay of execution, extra time with safety supply, what? what do they gain? im serious, does he think he can continue on with his charade, i know all narcs play the charade game. please comment, jaycee
they do never gain anything
Jaycee
Gain?
Pure survival
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thanks for all the responses
Jaycee
In the moment
Power
They do not have control over you
They do not have control over you
That's why we get D&D'd and/or we leave..they CAN'T!
Supply
stay~strong
In my experience
This is so true. They're
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
I agree