What do you think of this statement?

The narcissist I've been in love with said the following:

"Think of feelings as a shared bank. I have 100%. I allocate the percentage of feelings to different people. When I'm finally with someone, I force myself to reach that 100% and I always do."

4joys4's picture

I'm making the crazy cookoo sign..lol
agnesmurphy17's picture

I think this statement is nonsense. Mine would say such nonsense as well. Not those words. But, other cryptic comments. I suppose you could get into a whole discussion as to what this means exactly. But, I'd advise against it. In the end, I've decided my N is just plain nuts. And I am so much better off no longer living with him & having to deal with such nonsense.
Ellen's picture

Hi, I'm sorry but i don't understand that at all. Did you?
Barbara's picture

http://www.lisaescott.com/forum/2009/12/27/crazy-ways-pathologicals-talk http://www.lisaescott.com/forum/2009/03/27/what-they-say-vs-what-they-really-meant http://narc-attack.blogspot.com/2007/07/danger-of-ascribing-normal-human.html WORD SALAD A word salad is a mixture of abstruse words and wording that appears to be meaningful but signifies nothing. In the mental health field, schizophasia, commonly referred to as word salad, is confused, and often repetitious, language that is symptomatic of various mental disorders. It is usually associated with a manic presentation and other symptoms of serious mental illnesses, such as psychoses, including schizophrenia. It is characterized by an apparently confused usage of words with no apparent meaning or relationship attached to them. In this context, it is considered to be a symptom of a formal thought disorder. do NOT even try to make sense of him He's a WORD SALAD master: It's an NLP - confusion technique thing. Narcs & Psychopaths are MASTERS at this naturally. http://www.deeptrancenow.com/nlp_embedded_commands.htm http://www.deeptrancenow.com/nlp_time_distortion.htm http://www.deeptrancenow.com/hypnotic_confusion.html NO CONTACT NO CONTACT NO CONTACT ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website