What do you do......

What do you do when you are only 2 months out of a N relationship, and the "right one" seems to have appears out of nowhere?

I know about the red flags. Believe me. I have experience.
But what if he doesn't have them?

What if you kids adore him already? What if he tells you he was in a relationship with a female N for 10 years and knows all the symptoms, traits, characteristics and signs himself?

What if he does the dishes, offers to mow your lawn, kisses you with passion and rubs your back at night?

What if you are so fricking afraid of FEELING and TRUSTING again that you blow it??

Yes, I am in recovery. And I do understand that recovery takes TIME. But what if someone with empathy, feeling, caring, and who's favorite movie is "The Notebook" comes into your life before you are healed? What then??

I don't want to push a good one away. He makes me feel important to him. He has been here every day since the first date and nobody who has met him in my circle can find one red flag.

Please, help!