We're an odd bunch!
We're an odd bunch!
Anyone outside of our community would have to conclude that we are, in fact, crazy for putting up with the narc. WE know it's not healthy, so why do we do it?
Let's say two girlfriends are commiserating over their guy problems. "BFF #1" is involved with a nice, normal dude, but it just isn't working out. "BFF #2" has the very different pleasure of loving a narc:
BFF #1: I really miss my boyfriend. I know he loves me, but we just can't seem to make things work.
BFF #2: I know how you feel. I miss my narc, too. I was really good supply for him so it puzzles me why he left.
BFF #1: You miss your what? Well, anyway, we had a fight and it was painful. He cried and said he didn't know if he could commit.
BFF #2: Yeah, I was just recently D&D'd for, like, the third time. My PDI says he has NS with an OW.
BFF #1: Huh? Uh....in any case, I just can't accept that it's over. We shared something so special. We tried to get together the other night to talk, but it didn't seem to go anywhere.
BFF #2: I know, after the last hoover I've really been going through some major cog/dis. We mirrored each other well.
BFF #1 So, umm...anyway, I've been trying to move on.
BFF #2 Me, too. I've been three weeks NC.
BFF #1 WTF are you talking about? Are you describing some sort of relationship, here?
BFF #2 Oh -- didn't I tell you? I'm in love with a psychopath. There's a whole special language to describe what they do because they're not human. Not even remotely. God, I miss him.
BFF #1 ...Uh, honey, I'm going to say this in the nicest way possible...you need help.
This is our life, ladies, and it sure as hell ain't normal. When you need to invent an entirely new vocabulary to describe someone's loony behavior, you gotta know that something just isn't right with this picture!
Haha
dulicinea441
HAHAHAHA! that is CLASSIC!
New vocab
LMAO!
This is too funny...
OMG, I cannot stop laughing
Oh D!
sooo true!
Lol! This is great! What a
Journey on...