Weird hoover attempt

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#1 Feb 9 - 11PM
survivalist
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Weird hoover attempt

He came at me claiming he has cancer. My god, would they reallllly go THAT far???

Feb 10 - 9PM
brinamarie
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My ex made me feel bad for

My ex made me feel bad for breaking up with him as he was diagnosed with "prostatis, and very sick and how could i leave him at this time in his life" 6 months later, abuse, abuse, abuse... hows that issue? "it's fine, i'll deal" hmmmm.............
Feb 10 - 2PM
Hunter
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Yes, This happens of

Yes, This happens of often.. Hunter
Feb 10 - 2PM
Im_always_fine
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LMAO!Last year I was

LMAO! Last year I was fortunate enough to read the NARC/pimps e mails to his REMARRIED X wife who he was sneaking around with(one of the many)He was claiming he had cancer. Cried that he was so afraid of dying. Talked about his upcoming surgery. I live with him. I know that he has never had cancer. The lump on his elbow was a cyst...and he knew it. But he exploited it for attention. He played the cancer card for months...drawing her in...soaking her for pity and support. LOL...he has a lump on his neck. And he's had strep throat. He saw a doctor who noticed he has an ulcer on his tonsil. (this is really evil) but I've been deliberately freaking him out about cancer. Asking him if he's going to get biopsied. Telling him that the sooner they catch it the better. Talking about throat cancer. How he's had that chronic cough. How my grandma died from it(she did) I deliberately worked him into a fear froth. He ended up in bed so upset!! He was almost in tears..talking extremely slow...as if he has moments left to live. SCREW him. If he can pretend he has cancer...I can too.
Feb 10 - 2PM
Clear eyes
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That's how he hooked me...

Told me he had cancer, and did go through an operation. But it was gastric bypass! He passed it off as cancer...shaved his head (he was balding anyway). Jeez, I'm wondering now what the heck I saw in him...a big, fat bald guy! Have to admit, he looked great after the surgery, so great I couldn't believe he was going through chemo. Which of course he wasn't. Bastard. I later found confirmed it, confronted him with it, and got a silent treatment for a week or so. But went back with him. Please don't fall for this crap. They have no ethics, morals or boundaries when they trying to get what they want. And even if it is cancer, say a prayer for him and be done with it.
Feb 10 - 2PM
Jar of hearts
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Unfortunately

Yes!!! Or heart attack also a Narc favourite! They are just the lowest of the low !!
Feb 10 - 1AM
nomoredenial
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yep read

Thomas Sheridans book puzzling people, it says it in there. They stop at nothing.
Feb 10 - 1AM (Reply to #4)
nomoredenial
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says they will even go so far

says they will even go so far as to ahave thier heads and eyebrows to pretend they had chemo. Dont fall for it. If he has it then so be it. The boy who cried wolf loses
Feb 9 - 11PM
fallingfoward
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Yes....

they would. Mine faked having cancer. He would even had me take him to the doctor. (He was picking up drugs for his habit) He would use my compassion, for me to stay with him, to not pressure him to address issues, to account for disappearing acts and etc... He would tell me I need you in my life with what I'm dealing with, you're the only one I can talk to, no one else knows how I feel like commiting suicide, you're my best friend, I don't know it I ever be able to make love again, please make love to me one more time, you're the last person I want to be with etc... This was complete control over me, he played on my compassion, both of my parents die of cancer. He's a sick, disorder person, stay away from him.
Feb 10 - 4AM (Reply to #2)
Snowflake
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Mine faked mini strokes

But was very vague when I asked about tablets, the scans etc. hmmmmm. The empathic side of you couldnt possibly believe he would do that but they dont have empathy. Be careful hon, this as you can see has been used as a hoover before x