We need to be more sensitive
We need to be more sensitive
Bisexual and homosexual, as descriptions of a person's sexuality, are NOT deviant in themselves. Deviance is a separate issue.
Deviance is an "attitude" that perverts normal things. Sex and pleasure are normal things, Whoever created us made us humans some seriously horny creatures.
People with internal disturbances like NPD or ASPD (especially the latter) can pervert a birthday cake. They can pervert a sunny day. It only follows that they are gonna pervert sex.
I am really getting nervous that we are treading into sensitive grounds with lumping homosexuality into the perversions of a perverted person. I know we do have homosexual members, and I imagine if I saw my already controversial sexual orientation lumped in with some Narc's perversions, I'd be hurt :(
Victims of Narcs and other abusive assclowns are all together in this. We should be more sensitive to each other's differences. I'm sure that no one here was getting in a good gay bash all of a Sunday morn :D . We (Betty, Lisa, MsVulcan and I) are all concerned about this, and agree that we need to be more sensitive.
At the same time, the impact of the Narcs sexual deviance is REAL and hurtful and I have myself been very damaged by it. It needs to come out, we need the validation of each other's experiences to know we aren't alone, to help us understand more about what happened to us.
I'm gonna post this as a topic of it's own. We don't want to censor anyone's need to vent, share or seek validation.
We also are cringing that we are very likely causing victims like ourselves, who are homosexual, to feel put down :(
ok I have a question here
You are entitled to your
Briseis
Narcs can pervert...
sexuality
I have a problem just
Whoa :D
Or at least run the shower
I have the same problem
We are talking about NARCS
ok
Amen, that sick bastard NARC