Warning to OW..stay away from my kids because that's a 2 way street.

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#1 Sep 4 - 4PM
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Warning to OW..stay away from my kids because that's a 2 way street.

Last March I discovered yet ANOTHER OW in the dozens. This one I'd met. She is his cousins wife. She is a mess. Perfect for him with all her drama.
He was sneaking around with her for almost a year. Seeing her when he went down to Victoria to get his son...HOURS and HOURS on the phone and texting. Whatever...she's dip shit.
She was recently diagnosed with cancer (that's WHY he was ging to see her..so he told the pastor who TOLD him to end it.)
Anytime I posted on his FB page she and her bitch teen aged daughters would swarm me (this was when we were still together) Another woman he was sneaking around with (married) had written something on his FB about getting together soon. I told her to hold her breath. The OTHER OW and her daughters attacked. One of them PM'd me calling me a fucking bitch..then immediately blocked me. Stupid shit.
So he's been gone since March. The cancer OW has been following me around FB reporting my posts as spam (she told him she reported me) So I changed my privacy settings and I blocked her..problem solved.

My 15 year old son calls to me to day," Mom who's Angela Ryan?" I said," Do you mean Angela Borge Ryan?" HE said. "Yeh she's really ugly." I said, "Yeh.Why?" He says,"She sent me a friend request."
I went and looked...yep...it's her...WHAT THE FUCK?!?!
She has NEVER laid eyes on my kids. And is now seeking them out and contacting them!
So help me...I FLIPPED. I called the NARC. I told him," You listen to me. You call her and tell her that if she fucks with my kids I WILL fuck with hers. You TELL her that she had better not start something she has NO WAY of controlling HOW or IF it will EVER end!. You tell her It's not the cancer that will get her...it's ME. Tell her to stay THE FUCK AWAY FROM MY KIDS!!!" I said, "YOU fix it!!! You tell her how dangerous it is to mess with my kids."

So he did. He called me back. He said she is absolutely terrified.

I CAN'T BELIEVE THE LOSERS that are in my life through him. His insane family...his low life friends...his slob bitches.
I thought I was in the clear leaving him and the pond scum behind. I'm TOTALLY TRIGGERED. Just NUTS
Just when things were feeling normal.

I don't want to have to delete FB. I have family all over the country that I stay in touch with.

Don't mess with peoples kids. I'll blow the doors off your crazy with my crazy.

Sep 6 - 12PM
Im_always_fine
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So I worked up a prayer for

Sep 5 - 2AM
Used
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I-am-fine

Sep 4 - 9PM
Im_always_fine
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I've calmed down. I had a

Sep 4 - 5PM
IncognitoBurrito
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Hey

Sep 4 - 5PM
tramah
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I had that problem too, but

Sep 4 - 9PM (Reply to #5)
Im_always_fine
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My "momma bear" trigger is a

Sep 4 - 10PM (Reply to #6)
tramah
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Oh Yes

Sep 4 - 4PM
Deidre99
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I marvel that a woman with

Sep 4 - 4PM
round3
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I can relate to the kid thing

Sep 4 - 9PM (Reply to #2)
Im_always_fine
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Thank you for the info. I'm