URGENT----I need a response.

I know this is a way far out, way stupid question.....

I think if I could get this in my head once and for all, I could do the right thing and get out....

ANYONE THAT HAS BEEN READING MY POSTS AND KNOWS MY STORY, IS THERE ANY DOUBT IN YOUR MIND THAT I AM MARRIED TO A NARC/PSYCHOPATH???

ARE YOU 100% COMPLETELY POSITIVE THAT THEY CANNOT CHANGE......THERE IS NO WAY THESE MEN CAN CHANGE....
I THINK I HOLD ON TO THE FACT THAT MAYBE HE WILL CHANGE.

I basically know the answer to this.....it is just so very difficult to digest and accept!!! I just cannot believe there are actually people in this world that would treat others like this....destroy everyone that they touch and have no guilt or remorse....that they can not change.

If I told you just now the huge scene I just had with him with his children in the room.....you would be totally floored. These poor, poor children and what he has done to them. I hate him so much....I hate myself even more for becoming so weak.

I am calling the abuse hotline now!!