The "upfront" narc
The "upfront" narc
I read so many sad stories of our beautiful strong ladies here being conned by their "very good actor" narcs. Some of the faking is so elaborated!
On the contrary my ex narcky was actually quite "upfront" with me as in:
1. Never said he loves me, just care. Love is for mummy dearest only
2. He said he would never marry any woman including me
3. He told me his interest in any woman dont last more than 3 months. We lasted 3 years his longest in his 50+ narcky years. His reason is because i did not move in with him and we dont see each other daily.
4. I am not his only woman he cares for one other as well one of his long term ex. He cares for me too. All the rest of the woman not insignificant in his life ( saints vs whores syndrome).
Maybe i was really stupid. I stayed with him as he does take good care of me especially the initial phase. My biggest problem with him is he loves to abuse me with ST.
By the way, he is a diagnosed NPD. So no doubt he is a narc.
I think I am the only one with such "upfront" narc and i must be really stupid and crazy!!
Not blaming myself now but it just seems weird. I could identify with some things that were discussed here but not alot. Maybe the narcky i had was a weird one??!!
Sumiko
SEA
OWML
Up front
Rose
Losing the mask over the years
Susan
Sounds somatic...
100% somatic
As he gained weight...
The ageless narc
This sounds logical. No
Even if/when his looks aren't
Mine is barely making a living
Talk about gold diggers
You aren't..
Many of them are leaders of
Gifts
I think thats why mine worked
Prisoners
I use to tell him my kids and
So sad
I'm just glad I never had
Stealth
"he didn't ever direct his
"he didn't ever direct his
Mine too!
Thank you
Oh no, Sea, you are not
Tresor
my ex is quite abrasive and narcy with lots of people