update 2
update 2
ok. so, i have noticed a pattern. he is rude, then he asks me for a menial favor. i reflected on it a bit, and it happened alot in our 'relationship'/'marraige', gaslighting? conditioning?
so what happens, is if i refuse it, i am then faced with appearing petty and most likely being abused further.
so, after his bitchy email, he called twice and repeated everything he said in a voicemail.
sigh...
then, he sends me a text asking if i'll watch milo the dog. i love this dog. he's moving in next sunday, and asked if i would 'watch milo starting monday. he misses me', then he send a pittiful picture of the dog.
i replied 'uhmm, aren't you moving in in a week anyway'
'yes, but i'm going backpacking'.
i did not respond.
THEN, i have two email from him
'will you watch milo, he'll me misserable at my sisters house all week'
next email:
'can i drop milo off monday or tuesday'
it's really infuritating to me that i am being asked for a favor, even though it is trivial and i don;t mind at all, right after him being rude. my option are either to say no, try explaining to a psychopath that you can;t be rude then ask for things, or just say 'yeah'.
fucking drives me CRAZY
Fierflie . . . It's like you
briesis
i know, i still feel so
thanks guys
Fierflie
Hi Fierflie, I agree with
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
He couldn't seem to draw any
i just sent him a text that
Good!
this is the dog he talks
what if i just respond 'no.'
sigh... if i don't respond
so just say that i won't and
fierflie
He already said Milo will be
please help :( should i just
Fierflie
It's
fireflie
should i really just ignore
lisa
fierflie
Fierflie