THE ~ULTIMATE~betrayal.

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#1 Mar 19 - 9PM
rache
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THE ~ULTIMATE~betrayal.

Its bad enough to be lied to,cheated on,verbally/emotionally/and,physically abused (had it ALL, ladies),but,when one finds out that the ~WHOLE~game,was,to ensnare,trap(marry),USE,you so he could take EVERYTHING (the little money you have),then,your VERY life! It goes a shade beyond the PALE.AND,the FACT,that,he did this BEFORE to other FEMALES-the ones so trusting/naive,and/or-desperate,available sickens me.My psychologist said HE bit off more than he could chew with me(UNDERESTIMATED)what he got,but,the psychopath/killer,did,say he met his match in me.AND,the only THING he underestimated,was,(I)INTEND to be the WINNER.

Mar 21 - 12PM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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Ugly truths...

at least we are all on a site where we are believed. the psychonarc literally had cut his nose off to spite his own face. in his zeal to destroy me financially,he hadn't stopped to think that he wasn't going to have anything either..once he had destroyed my business, my credit cards were all maxed out, and the money was drying up, he tried to kill me for the second time..for my life insurance..and to get his hands on the cars, and be able to live in the house for a few months.. he wasn't even the beneficiary, but thought that as my husband he could get his hands on it. there is no limit to what these predators will do. mine would have murdered me as nonchalantly as he murdered my dog BEN. mine used to say all the time. 'you're NOTHING' and it's true, we mean nothing to them. we are only worth what they can take from us. i have no doubt Rache that he had you insured, and would have killed you for the money without blinking a reptilian eye.
Mar 21 - 11PM (Reply to #14)
rache
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REPTILIAN EYE

is,still looking for me,thinking,he can STILL collect that policy,even though,i am SURE FBI is involved in watching him(gut instinct/feeling)
Mar 20 - 10PM
cynthia (not verified)
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rach

you are so darling, cute pic of you, I am going to put my pic on for just a few days, I am so glad you dumped grandpa who enjoys his butt so much, old pervert, let him entertain the nurses at the nursing home while he masturbates under the hospital sheets
Mar 20 - 10PM (Reply to #12)
rache
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I'm hoping

the feds/police get him first,then,BUBBA can stretch it for him without the vaseline.LOL....(I forgot to tell everyone,that,HE told me once when i said there is NO perfect crime,he, said "YES,there is!And,he had his lawyer call me-introduced himself,as..............,then,proceeded to tell me that (the woman with exes name,at,his home through 2008,HE personally-knew,and,she was happily married for years-to someone else.LIES! THIS woman WAS my exes wife-she is D.E.A.D.WHY is he trying to hide it so well?The DA gave me the # to the DET on her case,but,he would not tell me anything,except,stay away!Said it twice.....................its driving me bonkers.....
Mar 20 - 2AM
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Trickster

Hi, I read this from the 'cassandra' website posted the other day. It has really got me cos this is the one that fits for my exN. The last sentence is quite scarey for me. It's not always a con to steal your money though is it cos it can be to cause and witness your pain as a woman, like it says here. mine did it so well too! Trickster The Trickster is charming and may have many social graces. Adjectives of first impression are easy to find: engaging, smooth and inviting. Unfortunately this attractiveness is a veneer on a disturbed personality. Behind the �trust me� messages you will find a malicious intent. It is the personality of the �con-artist�. The motives are covert and include exploitation, limitless entitlement and a cruel twist when the victim realizes the script of betrayal. Nathan came into the bank completely distraught. Sophia, his de facto for the previous six months, had gone overseas for what he thought would be a brief holiday. Before she left she asked him if she could use his Master Card if there was an emergency. He was puzzled when she did not return on schedule and then discovered to his horror that she had charged over $26,000 to his account. The Trickster is ruthless in relationships. He or she delights in fooling the trusting lover with betrayals such as sexual infidelity, fraud, or criminal conspiracy. Usually there is intrigue and considerable pleasure in the set-up. The theme of manipulation is always central. Inevitably trust is shattered. In this elaborate way the Trickster is justified in the contempt of victim �who was easily fooled�. There may be an underlying theme of gender revenge on the opposite (or same) sex. Unfortunately the Trickster comes in many guises and almost all hard to recognize (until too late!). It is a cruel game. The impact on the victim is usually shattering. It can be likened to psychic vandalism. The resulting damage is not easily repaired and may take years of patient re-building of boundaries, finding ways of better self-protection and perhaps eventually the capacity to trust again. Jung offered a more playful version of the Trickster. While each of the archetypes has a shadow side, in this context the Trickster is very dark indeed and more akin to the psychopathic personality.
Mar 20 - 12PM (Reply to #10)
rache
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PSYCHOPATH

YES! It describes the ~PSYCHOPATH~ in my case.Little does HE know my trust was broken in childhood,and,i have survivor skills honed to an art form .I DO give God all the glory for protecting me,as,he has since birth....
Mar 19 - 9PM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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the nasty old alley-gator

he needs to crawl back into a swamp and sink to the bottom.....hope the police catch up with him soon.... i'm glad you're so far away from the slithering old reptile......
Mar 19 - 9PM (Reply to #8)
ForeverLearning
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Love The Imagery!

You make me laugh every time!
Mar 19 - 9PM
rache
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UNDERSCORE-

I, am the one who said,"I,intend to be the WINNER.
Mar 19 - 9PM (Reply to #2)
Barbara (not verified)
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betrayal

I for one... hit the wall when I LOVED these people and they treated me like I was lower than worm dung - and THEN - I was called a stalker, crazy, obsessed, etc FOR GETTING ANGRY THAT I WAS MISTREATED! What The F**K how dare they take the oxygen out of our planet, even... ~~~~~~~~~ The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein Visit My Info. Website for Abuse Victims
Mar 20 - 12AM (Reply to #6)
rache
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I hear you Barbara!

Then,I,(today)decided NOT too...................
Mar 19 - 9PM (Reply to #3)
ForeverLearning
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Their Hideous Souls Defy All Logic

God save the innocents they snare, who haven't a clue what web they've wandered into.
Mar 20 - 12AM (Reply to #4)
rache
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I pray

Everyday(now),that,GOD makes it to where he will never get his hands on another woman.
Mar 20 - 9AM (Reply to #5)
ForeverLearning
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Thank Goodness

Thank goodness he's old and in poor health, can't hurt many more women (hopefully). Also one of my goals in life is to tell EVERY WOMAN I CAN ABOUT NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER AND THIS WEBSITE so this terrible disorder can become common knowledge to everyone, more women are aware of it, and less women get hurt in the future.