Typecasting
Typecasting
CharlieSheenWinning, as befitting his name, seemed to view his life as one big show with people put into "roles." I was cast as the fun sex kitten.
A friend of mine once tried to talk to him about the two of us. This was a year after his fiance broke up with him. At that point, I had already been involved with him as he and his fiance would break up and get back together. She would break up with him, and he'd bounce over to me for supply. She'd crook her finger to get him back, and I'd be discarded.
This gave him the chance to typecast me as sex kitten and he could never let that go. My friend told him, as I had several times myself, that I wanted a relationship, not just casual sex. He refused to accept this. He said to her, "No, that's not what she wants. She's different." Meaning: Her role is not Madonna, her role is Whore. My friend insisted, but he insisted right back that I was "different."
Anyone else feel typecast by your narc no matter what you did or said?
I know I had a responsibility for taking on the sex kitten role in the first place, but no matter what I said after hitting the proverbial casting couch, he never looked at me as a potential girlfriend. We even went away together for a week, which I thought was a step in the right direction, but then he still insisted he didn't want a relationship. Three weeks after he said that to me he married someone else! She was immediately cast into the role of Wife -- he only knew her for 3 weeks.
Role Playing
Aways the whore...never the madonna....
Mr. N = CharlieSheenWinning
They probably are brothers
I'm not sure what I was
No Idea
Arm candy
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.' --Mary Anne Radmache
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Yep
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.' --Mary Anne Radmache
Too funny!
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Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.' --Mary Anne Radmache
good for you
Humorless Narcs
Sounds like my story. After
SoOverItNext
Thanks! I love this forum!