Trusting my taste
Trusting my taste
i have high lighted another legacy from my time with my narc and its to do with taste and choises with decoration .
I have brought my boats lovely ladys , its a 50 foot narrow boat , the inside is all sound it has everything in place to be beautiful it just needs painting and pretty curtains that kind of thing , so i am looking at intreior design and i cant seen to make the simplpist choises , The reason why is after 2 years with a narc ALL my choises where ridiculed , i would buy a new dress and he would laugh at it , he would laugh at anything i brought for my house , he would laugh at my choise of music , tv ,friends , phone , car ...oh everything was bleeding laughed at it has destroyed my ability to trust my own taste . It took me a week to decide on what duvet cover to by for my bed , i went back to the shops all week not being able to choose .It became a running joke with my friends that i doing my head in over it . i chose in the end and it is lovely .
I know on the whole sceam of things its a small problem but i wonder how deep it goes and "duvet gate " was just the tip of the iceberg .
Anyone else having this problem
Scoop x
Mine never critized my
I know this all to well
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
Fear of disapproval
I know how you feel
Scooop
The thing my narc would do
I just posted something
Funny how they have no sense
sling blade
Aceonelady
"You're not supposed to make fun of Mr. T"
What makes you happy? I've
almostlydia
I agree....
I'm sorry, that last remark
almostlydia
almost lydia
Aceonelady
Almostlydia big love xx
Good for you !!
And this was suppose to be
almostlydia
I think it's super important
never agree
used
Lack of criticism
I did the exact same thing!!
Taste and Control
Susan32: Eat your food!
Weirdos
Helldwellar
Creepy... I remember during
betteroff
betteroff
this says it all Susan