TOTAL SADNESS
TOTAL SADNESS
I broke nc yesterday. I wanted to hear "I am sorry." Did I hear it no. And I never will. He is a n/p. He feels no remorse, no guilt.
My mind gets it, but my heart is a little behind. I just don't understand hurting people like they do and they not having any remorse. None. They just go on and do what they do. Pick the next victim out and go on their merry way.
I am so sad. Talking to him yesterday, make me realize that it all is true. He never loved me. It was all ns. And it makes me so sad. (Crying.)
How could I be fooled to such an extent. To give my heart and then my reasonning mind to P/N. I don't trut the world and I don't trust myself any more. I feel so alone. There is no happy ever after. There is no soul mate. There is just pure sadness and grief.
But this time I am not going to jump to rage, or forgivness. I am just going to let my self grieve, cry. I have decided to get some spiritual help from a Minister. I want to heal, I want this to be over.
I have also realized that this experience has brought up sexual abuse, emotional abuse when I was a kid. So I am going to deal with those issues at the same time.
Crying won't kill me, but the n/p might.
Love to all
Jen
The fact that he feels no
if its any comfort
He loves no one, most of all him self!!!
true that...
I agree from other comments
Journey on...
Sad for you too
{{hugs}}
Crying is good
Jen
I was tempted last night and
Respecting and laughing
gratefuljen