time to pull out the Psychopath Decoder Ring....

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#1 Mar 27 - 4AM
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time to pull out the Psychopath Decoder Ring....

the psychonarc is a man of few words...and i've said before that he is the king of no contact on account of he doesn't want any of his ugly past creeping into the new persona and life and spoiling his fun...

he has reinvented himself. he is no longer the lazy abusive psychopathic alcoholic whoring drug snorting entitled parasite he has been for his entire life..

now he is just your 'average joe'...been working at a papa johns delivering pizza...not delivering quite enough pizza, it appears...because he's being evicted from his cockroach crack of an apartment...booo hooo...i know this because i keep covert tabs on the psychotic cockroach as a safety precaution... ok

so he's being evicted. a few weeks back i posted about getting a creepy email from him.
this email. dated 3/8.

Is this still your email address? I'm supposed to be a smart guy even though I've dumbed myself down a bit over the years. I've watched a lot of TV and I've watched you and I still can't understand why a person does intentional harm to another human being.

i did not respond. i gather his car has crapped out, he's blaming me and he is hot after 'THE' car. the ragged out POS that is the only thing he's ever loved. because he sent me a terse email after the one above, demanding the return of THE car.

i ignored him

then yesterday. i get another one... rom a different email address... he has reinvented himself again... .his name is Michael... or as his mother called him Myyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyykill.. he alternates between being Michael, Mike, Mikey.. and Lucifer, king of the demonic gypsies... now he's Mikey again... mikey1921.. he must be bummed out.. because he usually spells his name in ALL CAPS... no joke all caps, all the time

the 1921 is the year his father was born..which is creepy in itself soooooooo. mikey1921 sends me another mysterious email yesterday

is this still your email address?

that was it - that's all it said
now, this crazy bastard has already worn me slicker than a drag racer's tires.
i hate his guts... and the carcass that is hoding his guts together...

i got this email... and i it was like... WTF?...

as i said in another post.. am hoping he wants to know so he can include it in a suicide note... but that's doubtful... sooooo... what DOES it mean?...

my knee jerk thought was to reply... 'no'...
but the psychopath has no sense of irony.. and apparently no sense whatsoever... has his brain finally rotted and dripped out his nose in balls of green snot... or... is he just trying to yank my chain?...

i really really want to respond with 'no'... i really really do

Mar 28 - 5AM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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foaming at the mouth...

yeah...i think i could have swallowed some long winded accusatory diatribe easier than ...'is this still your email address'....that was how his last email to me started too... i HOPE the booze and drugs have finally done their work, and he's down to just a handful of brain cells...good luck STEALING any of those off someone else, psychopath!.. i hate his guts....he's such a piece of sh!t...i have nothing left from years of working my butt off...he destroyed everything...and i'm sure now the filthy piece of sh!t wants to come back and try to pick my bare bones and get his hands on some worn out car...i'm sure it's all about THE car..
Mar 28 - 5PM (Reply to #18)
ForeverLearning
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And Another Camping Trip With A Scenic View.......

He craves the headgames with you, he wants nothing more than for you to let him have a 'do-over' so he can win this time around (drive you to off yourself so he gets insurance proceeds or sweet talk you and the dogs to a visit to the nearest large National Park for a hike up a path to a scenic view that you won't ever be writing home about.......) NO CONTACT WITH SATAN'S RETARDED STEP-SON! I envision he is very close to taking up residence on that rock his mother is saving for him.
Mar 27 - 2PM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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i'm gonna ignore him.......

no use in responding with 'no'....he's too Narc to get the joke, anyway.....and he's scary...
Mar 27 - 1PM
ForeverLearning
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He Will Never Stop Looking For You

Don't respond. However he will continue to look for you for the rest of his life. Responding just adds fuel to the fire for him. It motivates him more with negative reaction / negative energy, which he feeds on. He likes that. The ball is in his court, if you respond. It puts a smile on his face. We don't want that. Don't feed the beast! I am certain you not responding annoys the BEJEEZUSS out of him and drives him batshit CRAZY. Awesome!
Mar 27 - 10AM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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a dangerous whack job

he's a dangerous whack job...he tried to kill me twice..and he did murder my dog...so yeah...i keep tabs on him..my goal was to get far far away from him..but that fell through..and he'll NEVER leave his creepy narcissistic space...unless it's in a body bag....so i try to covertly keep abreast of his situation to protect myself and my pets.... i wish he'd just drink himself to death...i bet if i lauched a vodka telethon for him, i'd get a tanker truck full from former victims in hours.......
Mar 27 - 9AM
bubbles
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Brain yankers total wankers!

Yanking your chain indeedy he is! We all know the score and the "missing link" of the chain is the repercussions should we reply to any email... one pull of that chain sends us right down the plug-hole again! Mine contacted me exactly 1 year after NC and I called him on it, then he did it again and I fell for it... not a word from him since 25th Nov 2009... but its up and coming, I bloody know him and is he in for a shock ( and so is his wife!) (Read my story - Bubbles ) NC... if it ain't broken, don't fix it!
Mar 27 - 8AM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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if it weren't

for the fact that he does speak and write in short half sentences, i would almost think it wasn't him... he's not usually the mysterious sort...he is stingy with written and/or spoken words and tends to get right to the point.like..'give me THE car'...or 'you'll be sorry for this'....short edicts or terse veiled threats are much more his style....however, the last time i actually spoke to him..when he cornered me in a parking lot..in my personal opinon,he seemed waaaaaaay beyond his normal insanity...totaly irrational... although he's the type of psycho who constantly wants to cause stress and turmoil for others...he tends to come totally unglued when the stress is on him personally...if that bastard is truly victimless..and about to be truly homeless...it really does creep me out....
Mar 27 - 8AM
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narcnarc..

They could say 'nothing much' in an e-mail and that alone can feel like a HUGE invasion. We just want them out of our lives so badly...I've wanted to e-mail mine, 'just forget I exist'! Mine sent me an odd e-mail out of the blue earlier this year. That's how I felt...that he was being a space invader. I would definitely not reply, he has no business in knowing anything about you. Not sure what his motives are, but it's nothing good. Luckily, mine hasn't contacted me since earlier this year, and it was a very odd attempt, not giving details, but I was definitely in WTF mode that day. Ugh...evil creatures just need to disappear...
Mar 27 - 4AM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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his stupid emails...

the thing is ....either his brain has really truly rotted from the years of booze or drugs...or he's just yanking my chain...because he is emailing me at an email that is my name...and is the email address that i have had since Al Gore invented the internet!!... he KNOWS it's my email address...so i don't get the coy bullshit.....
Mar 27 - 7AM (Reply to #9)
serene69
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they are loonies

He just wants a response - that's why he sent a question - and he damn well knows it is you. I know around the time I was getting v suspicious of my N and I think he knew that I was on to him, he just sent me a text one day saying 'hi'. That was it! I mean what? I was cautious, but was not in a situation of NC then, so yes i did reply and he was feeling v sorry for himself and wanted someone to tell him he was wonderful etc etc. But i mean what normal person just says 'hi' in a text (and it had been about 6 days since I had last heard from him at that time!
Mar 27 - 12PM (Reply to #10)
ForeverLearning
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Some say 'hey'

I've seen one that just texts 'hey'. It's interchangeable for 'hi' in his mind. It's just throwing out bait to see what they can reel in that they can play with for a spell and then throw back after they've caused enough damage to satisfy their sadistic needs.
Mar 27 - 4AM
serene69
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Try not to

Please please try not to respond. I know it is hard but it is incredible I find how even email contact can stir feelings and it will set you back. Be strong
Mar 27 - 4AM (Reply to #2)
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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you're so right.......

just that one line and i was frothing at the bit to run him down with THE car.... if he was to email something i could in any way construe to be insulting or lucid......i'd SNAP.....
Mar 27 - 8PM (Reply to #7)
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Isn't it bizzarre

How such a short email gets your engines revving?! Just a missed call or the sound of his voice can get me enraged & foaming at the mouth!
Mar 27 - 4AM (Reply to #3)
serene69
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emails

I know around the time I started no contact I was still looking out on craigslist to find if he was posting there. He has a certain style that I detect in his posts and nearly always find him there. Well a couple of times i replied from fake emails addresses, just to wind him up a bit really. But I found when i got a reply and knew it was him, I felt this shiver through me, I felt my stress levels immediately grow, I had bad dreams. So even contact when he doesn't know it is you, and one is pretending to be someone else has a bad affect! I stopped soon after then. But yes it is so hard not to respond really hard - hang in there!
Mar 27 - 9AM (Reply to #4)
Amazed
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NarcNarcwhosthere,I hope you free yourself

Don't respond, you will only walk into a trap. Just observe, size up what he is trying to do. I think it a good idea that you keep tabs on him from afar. Don't respond, it is only walking into a trap. Be strong, don't cave to the monster.
Mar 27 - 10AM (Reply to #5)
joeP
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Block Him

He's not being evicted into the streets. He's living in your head rent free. Just block him. New email address? Block that one too and everyone he sends from now until eternity. If he gets no supply from you he will go away.... If you respond you will be teaching him it takes several attemps but she will eventualy respond.
Mar 27 - 1PM (Reply to #6)
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joeP

this guy has NO INTENTION of going away - he's a psychopath and could easily commit murder. No response yes - but watch your back because this guy needs to satisfy his bloodlust and narcnarc's numero uno on his list. ~~~~~~~~~ The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein Visit My Info. Website for Abuse Victims