They push your boundaries...

I feel like such an idiot. I was completely NC for seven months. Then, my father died, and the narc ended up coming to the funeral home. The hoover. He came back to the company we both work for, so I was forced to find some sort of LC to deal with the projects we might both be working on. He pushed a little, IMing me at work, the how are you's and such. I thought we could come up with some sort of working relationship. I was wrong. He's still trying to come back, still has two or three relationships going on, but, of course, I'm the only one that matters. It's disgusting. Mostly because I think I can handle it, it's not a problem. I'm a big girl...I got where I was waiting on his messages...and that's when I knew it had to stop, again. I have no idea how I'm going to navigate through this, but it won't be letting him back in my life. In any capacity. Ughhhh!