They are relentless!

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#1 Jan 11 - 1PM
Sparrow
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They are relentless!

I am going to Florida..........not moving mind you, going on a trip with some friends.

My exnh heard I was "moving" to Florida, wrote me an email wishing me well and inquiring what I am doing with my condo. Am I selling it or renting it? Have I signed a contract with a realtor? If not, please don't and consider selling it to him so he can use as an investment. Then proceeded to ask me how much the going rate for rentals in my development are.

And made sure to add that he would like me to consider selling to him "as long as it wasn't too weird for me".

Piece of work these disordered are.......piece of work.

They are relentless and have no boundaries what so ever.

Unbelievable.

Jan 11 - 3PM
Sparrow
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Myst, exactly..........there

Myst, exactly..........there lies the difference between them and us. I would no more look to profit from an ex than fly to the moon. He probably already looked into comparible properties and is working on drawing up contracts! LOL I shake my head and just move on. Only a narc would have the ability to do this. Me, I have a conscience and I use it on a daily basis, not them. They answer the door every time opportunity knocks. Relentless. It's all good. A year ago, this would have sent me spiraling. Now, I find nothing but humor in it. LOL
Jan 11 - 3PM
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Your narc is not even

Your narc is not even particularly original. PD's never really are. rofl. After xnh dumped me, he heard from a mutual "friend", who has an apparently really big mouth, that I was selling my property. It was quite obvious to me that this guy went straight back to xnh and told him what I'd said (with some "embellishments" added). I had never claimed I was selling my house, and I had merely been discussing "what if" scenarios about my life. Possibly moving in the very distant future was one of my many ideas. "Old Thunder Lips" apparently just about ruptured his spleen running back to xnh to gossip. Xnh jumped onto this soapbox. He immediately started telling everyone around him that I was selling my house, and what a piece of shit he thought it was (it's not). He was telling people they could probably buy it really cheap. I literally had people coming up to me in the grocery store asking me what I wanted for my property. After about 10 people did this, I finally blew a gasket, and started telling anyone asking that xnh REALLY needed to mind his own f*cking business. I told them we hadn't spoken in over 8 months, and xnh does NOT know his butt from a hole in the ground when it comes to ANYTHING happening (or not) in my new life without him. These people got the very clear impression from me that I did NOT appreciate xnh playing "real estate salesman" or professing to know anything about my current business. I don't suppose it impacted xnh much at all, but it certainly did feel good for me to make xnh look just as ignorant and uninformed as I possibly could when people asked about my property. I exposed xnh as quite the uninformed buffoon. In addition, the mutual "friend" got no more personal information from me. He was obviously a "security leak". I'm now NC with him as well as being NC with xnh. You are absolutely correct these PD's are a piece of work. They are relentless vultures and have no boundaries.

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Jan 11 - 1PM
Movingforwardnow
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oh....

and hope you ahve fun in Florida!
Jan 11 - 3PM (Reply to #3)
Sparrow
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Thanks Mcastle! I am excited

Thanks Mcastle! I am excited about the trip! Appreciate your well wishes! :)
Jan 11 - 1PM
Movingforwardnow
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they just never stop

they are like the energizer bunny...they just keep going and going and going. UGH!