There is light at the end of the tunnel I promise !

Hi everyone
Sorry I haven't posted for quite a while now but occasionally I have come here to read your stories and it pains me to read about others pain going through this journey of self discovery after being in the clutches of a Narc.

I'm posting now to try offer some hope to everyone starting out on the journey and struggling with NC..

After being discarded very cruelly in later stage of pregnancy I recently heard him n NW are expecting and I can honestly say the news would of crippled me a year ago but not now... I feel pity for NW as he has well and truly got her caught in his web of lies and deceit and I feel even more sorrow for the poor little mite who is to enter the world with him as a Father figure and role model.

I surprised myself at my reaction and wanted to say to all of you if you do the work on you and remain NC or LC if you have children then the world you live in becomes a little brighter and you can breath more easily and enjoy everything there is around you that you never noticed while you were stuck in the fog.

I aren't here to say its easy because its not, neither am I preaching to anyone I've made all the mistakes with my EXN believe me because I too couldn't believe these destructive people existed , I'm just walking the path on the other side and I wanted to tell you , you will be alright , you are stronger than you may feel at this moment in time and more importantly you really are not alone.

Much love to all

Jar xx