Then What of Romance?
Then What of Romance?
I truly believed my last ex N was my knight and shining, my one and only, my destiny . . . barf. He even dressed as Neo - - "The One" from the Matrix on Halloween. Irony that the mask began to peel off that night.
The boy swept me off my feet. I thought I had everything I wanted and I was on a cloud, only of course to be dropped and replaced shortly thereafter.
So, is that it? I am actually numb at this point after all my dating experience. I think if one more guy tries to sweep me off my feet, I will run away so fast, he wouldn't even have the chance to say "but, but you are so special"
Is romance dead? I'm pretty sure my hopeless romantic side is what made me easy prey for these bastards. I keep hearing from my friends that it's the ladies who don't care about marriage who end up finding a great guy and getting married.
I was always afraid of not caring. After the last N, I think I am starting to not care. Is this healthy? My therapist said he thinks it's good to get swept up in the romance. That I shouldn't give up on that. I'm so conflicted. I can't help but envy the ladies who do get to have that and end up with someone great. Is it even possible in this society or are all the men really scum? Do I really have to play the game and hide my feelings if they develop? Eventually, you need to show how you feel.
Romance might be a myth and
Romance?
lpnarcmagnet
18 Months!
that book upset me
i hate those types of books
you can't help, fix, manage, cure or disarm a NARC
Tucker Max
jerks
Enough!
lpnarcmagnet
Disarming the narcissist
My mom always said that the
Wonderful Advice - Thinking From The "Care" Perspective