Thank you

I just wanted to thank you all for helping me through my mini depression the other day. I will be joining Weight Watchers, exnh (father of the year) once again blew off the kids (this from someone whose atty keeps telling the courts he wants to continue to have a "close & loving relationship" - hasn't seen or spoken to them in almost 2 months!). And I found something for myself with my raise! I bought myself a new car! First one since 2001, new to me car! Exnh will be mad I traded in "our" car, but this one is loaded and I LOVE it! (SUV has everything - even heated outside side mirrors for the cold Chicago winters! - I love my car!!!) Such a self esteem booster for me!
I can support myself and my kids by myself. He is living off "fiance" and parents. Since we divorced, I have bought my own home and now my new car! I am not the loser I thought and I have to remember he is a sick sick "person". Who is the damaged one, baby!
I have a really hard time right now thinking of him as an actual human, because people don't act like he does.

Sorry, I am just really excited to do something for myself. Thanks for the advice all!