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Textbook behavior

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#1 Sep 17 - 4PM
Ready4Me
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Textbook behavior

I'm angry and at a loss right now. My N keeps getting my number and getting messages through. That in itself isnt the main problem. I haven't engaged so she's befriended my 14 year old niece who is having a very difficult time right now the last thing she needs is this N messing with her too. The N wants to pick my niece up this weekend and go to the cemetery to visit the N's sons grave and then go to lunch. My sister and her husband are going through a divorce. My niece is living with her dad in another state right now so my sister who knows exactly what the N is up cant really stop this. This feels like throwing my niece to the sharks. I know the N is trying to get a reaction from me and I'm almost tempted to break no contact. This vulnerable messed up kid shouldn't need to be a target. I brought this shell of a human being into the family so feel responsible and truly believe that whole it takes a village philosophy so feel the need to protect my niece. I'm too far away right now myself to just go pick her up b4 the N can and go do something with her (my niece). I just don't know what to do.

Sep 17 - 7PM
Hunter
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She's 14 ? Her parents,

Sep 17 - 8PM (Reply to #2)
Ready4Me
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Idk about my number. I have