tempted

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#1 May 13 - 2PM
enoughalready
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tempted

I received several txts this morning. "I'll do what u want me to do for you", "I'm not whole without you, u r my better half", I deleted all the women on facebook", what else do u want me to do"? "I've done what u wanted me to do, so please stop ignoring me" part of me wants to txt- leave me alone-that's what I want u to do. But, I just ignore and fume. He txts using another number. I block his calls, his number, facebook, email etc. Yet he finds a way to get at me.I don't reply, I'm sick of this!

May 13 - 3PM
broken23
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in a regular

in a regular relationship...it would be satisfying to know someone cares about you...but i think as i find out more. the best thing to do is run the other way before they get any of your energy
May 13 - 3PM
quietude (not verified)
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You know, this just irks me...mine did the same thing, enough... They'll do 'whatever we want', and 'please don't ignore', or 'I don't want to lose you'. Oh REEEEALLY? So, is this how they 'felt' while they were devaluing us too?? You almost want to say, make up your mind a-hole..which is it?? You WANT me, you don't want me?? No wonder our head is spinning out of control those first few weeks (at least). YES, get sick of it enough...getting fed up is a huge help with NC! Stick to it.
May 13 - 10PM (Reply to #8)
ollie
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Ha. That made me laugh out loud. They want you and work so hard at making sure they have you, then they decide they don't want you and then they decide all of a sudden hey I don't fucking care that I have been a total f*cking prick to you, but you know what? I want you back again. The N in one day was cold, then hot, then cold again, make up your f*cking mind!!!!! I had sent a email at 6 am saying good morning, very busy day at work and wished him a nice day, beautiful day out, bla, bla, bla, no complaining, no negativity, he ignored message until 3 PM, he then sent a text saying I need to see you, I was working, had important people in from out of country for work, an all day/evening affair for next 2 days, his response 6 hours later? Ok, well going to go to sleep. Obviously see how this is going. I will always love good night. what a fucking asshole.
May 13 - 2PM
TexN (not verified)
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Enough

Tempted? Tempted to what, taking him back?
May 13 - 2PM (Reply to #2)
enoughalready
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texN

Absolutely not! Tempted to txt and tell him off but I know that'll give him pleasure.
May 13 - 3PM (Reply to #6)
TexN (not verified)
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Wheww!

Good! I'm glad you're stickin to your guns! You've learned enough on here to know he's full of shit! :)
May 13 - 2PM (Reply to #3)
sanctuary
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Obviously NC is getting to

Obviously NC is getting to him, so take a little satisfaction in that. Keep it up!! You're right, replying only gives him what he craves...attention...and attention of any kind is supply. Can you change your number?
May 13 - 3PM (Reply to #4)
enoughalready
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yes

That's my next plan of action next week. New phone w/ new number :-)
May 13 - 8PM (Reply to #5)
Barbara (not verified)
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NEW PHONE & NUMBER

new phone - new number and do NOT give it to ANYONE who might get it... especially the local gyms!!! they might be giving it to him! ~~~~~~~~~ Moving Forward: Coaching for Victims Pathologicals Feelings buried alive never die. - Alice Miller