Tempted
Tempted
Cd very strong and am thinking all sorts of things...but not acting on them.
He sent text after text monday all focused on the children. If I don't respond he accuses me via his solicitor of preventing him having his parental responsibilities. Very difficult as any contact confuses and disorientates me. Plus it's like a drug to me and when the Hugh wears off I want more.
I keep my replies to the point but it still sets me off.
He sent another text about contact yesterday and I haven't replied yet.
Then I start thinking I'm playing games not responding or I'm engaging in games if I do respond arch
Then I start thinking that maybe there is hope for us to get back together, maybe he will realise, he does love me really, no one can be that bad, he will change, he is desperate and in pain and that will bring about change, the other woman is just a way of managing losing me, blah blah
That voice in my head......ITS A LIAR
How can I possible even be remotely interested after the way he denigrated me and hurt me over the years and blamed me for it all?
My need for him is the need of a desperate lonely frightened little girl and I need to find a way of soothing her. That way is not him.
It's a long road. I am still obsessively thinking about him and swirling it all around in my head...the ifs, buts, maybes, shoulds, coulds, mights, pleas, rages, revenges, schemes, plans, hopes, fears .....but I am not acting on the thoughts. Nt at this moment anyway. I am trying to find just a little space amidst it all and just be still......not easy for me who has lived a frantic life for so long but I am trying.
Jelic x
Jeli
Michelle
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Marriage to Narcs...