Talk me down

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#1 Nov 14 - 7PM
libre2013
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Talk me down

Okay, so I have not peeked in two days. Tonight he came to my door. LIke I said ex jerkface left in Jan. He has been with his new younger gf since January and they recently moved into a new place together. He has been lying to our son (16) that he is living with a buddy 45 min away. My son confided in a mutual friend of ours that his father brought him to the new place ( unsure if he met the gf) According to my friend my son felt like IT was disprespecting me since the divorce isn't even final etc. This must have happened a couple of days ago.
This evening my son came home from school and said that he was thinking of hanging out with his father and then changed his mind. He then changed his mind again and decided to call IT. IT did not answer, but texted my son about hanging out tomorrow. About an hour later my home phone rings it is IT.. I do not answer, IT then proceeds to call my daughter who is 13 and has initiated NC due to not wanting to deal with her father's drama... she has not spoken to him really since June. He then texts me " Are the kids ok" i do not respond, then he calls my phone, then he calls the house phone and then he texts me that he hasn't talked to my son in a couple of days, which I know is a lie since I was there when my son tried calling him and i saw his text come in to my son's phone. I don't know whether or not my son responded to it. All of a sudden there is a knock on the door and it is him. I know that I should not have answered, however, he knew we were home and I did not want drama. I cracked the door open while on the phone and he asked if everything was ok, lied about not hearing from our son, I simply said that our son was sleeping and he had called him earlier.. he acted surprised and went ok.. sorry. Sorry for the immensely long post and I just really needed to vent because it has left me so pissed off and I would rather vent to you guys than peek or whatever. He is just an unbelievable liar and I have to try to stay calm.

Nov 15 - 8AM
Done sourcing
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Typical narc move...I have

Nov 15 - 12AM
Willow
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Just a thought, because I

Nov 15 - 6AM (Reply to #2)
libre2013
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In hindsight it might have,

Nov 15 - 8AM (Reply to #5)
Done sourcing
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He knows how to get hold of

Nov 15 - 9AM (Reply to #6)
libre2013
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Thanks, this is exactly what

Nov 15 - 10AM (Reply to #7)
Done sourcing
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You were right. They

Nov 15 - 8AM (Reply to #3)
Willow
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Ya, Good ol' Hindsight!

Nov 15 - 9AM (Reply to #4)
libre2013
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Thanks, I have to say that I