Such confusing behavior

12 posts / 0 new
Last post
#1 Apr 26 - 8PM
Celebrity NS
Celebrity NS's picture

Such confusing behavior

Hi everyone,
I have not posted my full story yet but I need some input ... I am with a narcissist I think, and after 13 years I am beginning to doubt my own sanity. And he does not want to leave me, I think because I am related to famous people so I really am the ultimate in Secondary Supply. Believe he is not leaving even with a crowbar. I have tried ignoring him, not washing my hair, dressing loud and crazy, everything. And he just keeps being so committed so who wouldn't think I was NUTS?
Anyway yesterday he rescued someone from a burning car, very heroic. Then he came home said he was so upset, well of course, then I saw him at his computer and he typed up this long article about himself like it was the cover of the morning news done in third person. Ready for publication! Then he emailed it to everyone he ever knew, one at a time, and to all the city officials he knows, all his business connections, boards, clients, newspapers, my family -- everyone. Then as the comments came in "Wow you are such a hero" He answered every email the same "No, just did what we do" (weird sentence?). THEN, someone from the chamber of commerce says "Oh you should get an award" and he wrote back, "Well not really, the one guy died. But actually, the guy I pulled from the car did survive...."
Anyway, some of my friends are telling me I'm being too mean, but I don't know why I am just appalled that he would promote himself like this. Is this narcissism? Or is he just a guy trying to get a leg up in life? This is why I am stuck in this marriage. I keep thinking there is something wrong with me. What the heck? He wants to stay married, now he's a hero. Is it weird behavior please give it to me straight.
Celebrity NS

Apr 27 - 2PM
Celebrity NS
Celebrity NS's picture

Heroics Narcissistic Primary Supply

Apr 27 - 11AM
Hunter
Hunter's picture

"This is why I am stuck in

Apr 27 - 12PM (Reply to #10)
Celebrity NS
Celebrity NS's picture

This is why I am stuck

Apr 26 - 9PM
phantom adoration
phantom adoration's picture

No doubt

Apr 27 - 4AM (Reply to #8)
Snowflake
Snowflake's picture

Dogs..

Apr 27 - 3AM (Reply to #2)
Celebrity NS
Celebrity NS's picture

No doubt

Apr 27 - 8AM (Reply to #5)
phantom adoration
phantom adoration's picture

You are catching on

Apr 27 - 1PM (Reply to #6)
Celebrity NS
Celebrity NS's picture

You are catching on

Apr 27 - 2PM (Reply to #7)
phantom adoration
phantom adoration's picture

First....a few facts

Apr 27 - 4AM (Reply to #3)
Snowflake
Snowflake's picture

Celebrity

Apr 27 - 2PM (Reply to #4)
Celebrity NS
Celebrity NS's picture

Pinned wings