"Stuff"...and various rants
"Stuff"...and various rants
I've been reading some posts that deal with the fact that ns "travel light"....guess father time was no different...
Closets full of clothes!!!!(only a 4th still fit as he's "blossomed" in recent years)
A huge cupboard with towels and washcloths...(he's a self-proclaimed drunk shopper with a thing for...towels????)
The only picturess on display were 4 of his girls (now in their late 30's)as babies, and on their wedding days.
When I met him, he had few pots, pans, dishes..things to run a house with...
Of importance to father time were the "big ticket" items...expensive jewelry (watches, I got the cheaper ones), cars (5 at last count), and now the house he bought for "us"...
I was shown snapshots of a huge boat, travel trailer and big truck to match...all "owned" with the previous gf....funny, she kept all that....
I don't want stuff, I want real....
Was told about an xgf he met at church...they broke up because he wanted "some pussy" and she wasn't giving....OMG!!!!!!!REDFLAGREDFLAGREDFLAGREDFLAG!!!!!!!How in the hell did I not see that one?????????(did I throw away those narc-colored glasses????)
Early on, I had asdmired a ring he wore....low and behold, a few days later it was sized to fit my hand....such a nice gesture...I was stunned!!!...till his last xw walked up to me one day (she also works at the prison I do)and told me that was his wedding ring she had bought for him...just how fucking nasty was that???He knew she would see it and I would be humiliated....and he was right....and I stayed for more....
Clarity....I'm getting there...
he sounds like a very
I just wish I'd known then,
darlene
Thank you both!!!I'll be