Strange experience tonight

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#1 Nov 14 - 9PM
Anonymous (not verified)
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Strange experience tonight

I stopped at a quick stop to pick up some milk we were out of and as opened the glass door and reached into to get the milk a hand grabbed me from the other side and I screamed it scared me so badly. It was a young kid playing a prank thinking it would be funny to scare the shit out of someone. Guess what? I didnt find it to be ONE BIT FUNNY and for the first time in my life instead of ignoring something I reacted negatively to I let this kid have it. I said do you find that funny to scare the crap out of someone you asshole, he just laughed so I reported it to the manager and the manager didnt find it to be very funny either, so the kid apologized and guess what? I didnt accept his apology either, I just looked at him and said apology not accepted and walked out of the store. I would have never had the nerve to do that years ago but the kid just scared the wrong person I already have anxiety and I dont need to be startled on top of all this I am dealing with. But I spoke up for myself and it felt good. He no doubt thought I was a bitch who couldnt take a joke, guess he just picked the wrong person to pull a prank on, I have had enough pranks for a life time thank you

Nov 15 - 2PM
Carolyn
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Why would grabbing a woman

Why would grabbing a woman in a public place be considered funny by anyone? You did the right thing and he did the wrong thing. He will think twice before abusing another female. Anxiety is wearing and you might think of some natural things like low fat dairy products, valerian, and Vitamin B 12. those things have no side effects and calm the nervous system down.
Nov 15 - 3AM
nolongerafixer
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Another phase of healing????!!!!

OMG. Sooooooooooooooooo funny! Ohohohohohahahahaha I can hardly type this!!! I am in stitches with tears coming out of my eyes!! Hi. Its me, by the way! No, Im not stalking you - just replied to your recent answer to mine on the `Its the weekend` blog page and then came to this comment. Just realised it was youhoo. I can so relate!!! It seems, we have learned to take absolutely `no s**t`. Another phase of getting over!!!!????? I had similar experience about three weeks ago when I was walking down a road in deep concentration ( disecting my jekyle/hyde experience as usual, heckles up, nerve endings at the forefront) when all of a sudden an incredibly loud bang sounded off just behind me, my legs becoming instantly soaking wet!!!!! It turned out to be a water bomb (balloon filled with water) thrown from an incredible height out of a top attic window. I fleetingly glimpsed the culprits - two young boys. I was BESIDE myself with sudden anger. HOW DARE THEY VIOLATE MY SPACE!!! I proceeded to knock on said house`s door. I dont normally lie but I put on such a good act telling the parents in a polite but `I am distraught` way that Id just come out of hospital after a lengthy operation and the children should watch who they are throwing water bombs at!!!! I went on to say I had been told to have absolute rest and this did not help on my way to recovery!!!!! That would show those kids to scare me into oblivion!!!! They were made to come down and apologise and I could hear them being told off on my way through the gate. There, job done!! Ordinarily, it would not have phased me!!!! I really wouldnt be stooping so low as to fight against children!!!! But...........?????? Another phase we are going through????!!!!!
Nov 15 - 8AM (Reply to #6)
cynthia (not verified)
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Id just come out of hospital after a lengthy operation

how funny, hey your narc taught you to act a little, good for you ha ha, sometimes we need to do that, I think its my phase of hearing, just dont want to be scared now, and wont take shit from anyone hope it passes cas I am kinda bitter and get mad quickly,
Nov 15 - 7AM (Reply to #2)
Amazed
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I am glad to hear you stood up for yourself

Excellent Cynthia, I am glad you reacted strongly and didn't take something like that. I feel in a similar situation alot too. There is no way someone is going to try and fake me out again. That you did this shows how confident you are in your healing, and knowledge, and that you will not be duped by any dude prankster, con man, player or jerk who wants to get his play or laughts on you!!! This is so healthy to hear you say this. Good job!!!! Keep it up!!!!
Nov 15 - 8AM (Reply to #3)
cynthia (not verified)
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d just come out of hospital after a lengthy operation

even though I should have probably laughed it off I guess it was a good test to stand up for myself FINALLY, my whole damn life I never stood up for myself, why I didnt do that with my pschopath I will never know, should have said go to hell because the joke and game he played on me I also failed to see the humor in a big way
Nov 15 - 9AM (Reply to #4)
4joys4
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That would have scared the

That would have scared the crap out of me! I think after this, our nerves are very on edge.
Nov 15 - 10AM (Reply to #5)
itreallyisabouthim
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Good for you, Cynthia. I

Good for you, Cynthia. I bet that was therapeutic. And I agree - my nerves are pretty jangled too. And also I question people's motives / don't automatically assign the most innocent motive to an action.