Stop Listening to the Psychopath. Anything you ARE will be used against you.

We can get hung up on the details.
He said this, he did this, can you believe this...

Here's the deal.
ANYTHING you are, ANYTHING you wish for, becomes a tool to exact power over you.

If you are STRONG, your strength will become a weapon.
If you are WEAK, a weapon.
Hard working? A weapon.
Friendly, out-going? Introverted? Weapon.
Amazingly beautiful? Weapon.
Out of shape? Weapon.
Determined? Weapon.
Passionate? Weapon.

It will ALL be turned against you, USED against you.

NOTHING THEY SAY IS REAL. STOP LISTENING.

It's all garbage.

I notice this now that I'm out of the marriage, and now that I am somewhat educated (still learning) about Psychopathy. When people talk to me about something he has done or said, or something a psychopath is up to - they assign meaning to it - they give it validity, when it should be DISCARDED since it is all a SCAM, a SHOW, a PLOY designed to KILL your spirit and CONTROL your being.

STOP LISTENING TO WHAT THEY SAY AND GET AWAY.