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#1 Nov 5 - 3PM
AnotherPath
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still don't get it

I still don't get why he is sending more text messages and emails and messages on my phone since his new gf. I don't answer any of them and have blocked the emails. Why is he sending more knowing that I don't respond and he has new gf?

Nov 5 - 6PM
baddream
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He hasn't really said good bye

That's what N does. He is making sure you are still there while he is with his gf. Don't be surprised when he tries to come back, and be strong enough to ignore him when he does.
Nov 5 - 6PM
itreallyisabouthim
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How long has it been since

How long has it been since you've blocked him and stopped responding? If it's recent, perhaps he's still sort of in disbelief and expecting you to fire back a volley one of these days? Maybe his current "squeeze" is not what he was hoping? Dunno - hard to say. But NOT knowing is so much better than knowing, kwim?
Nov 6 - 3AM (Reply to #4)
AnotherPath
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I haven't answered an email

I haven't answered an email in over a year. I occasionally replied to a text regarding timings for pick up for kids, although haven't done even this for 6 months. I've been completely NC for 2 months, won't look in his direction when pick up and drop off. I thought he'd get the message by now. He's also got a lot angrier in the last 2 months. Raged at my lawyer on the phone and is sending her rageful letters. You'd think he'd just concentrate on his new victim.

Ending the dance

Nov 6 - 6AM (Reply to #5)
Barbara (not verified)
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AnotherPath

let him send the crap to the lawyer... he'll get himself in another whole world of trouble. NOT YOUR PROBLEM! Hug... ~~~~~~~~~~~~ My Abuse Information Site Online Coaching & Help
Nov 5 - 8PM (Reply to #2)
Barbara (not verified)
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NO CONTACT

IGNORE HIM!!! they are ALWAYS trolling....... ALWAYS ~~~~~~~~~~~~ My Abuse Information Site Online Coaching & Help
Nov 6 - 6AM (Reply to #3)
4joys4
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They cant be happy. The

They cant be happy. The other side of the fence isnt as green as he hoped. He wants to keep one leg on your side so he wont be without supply.