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#1 Feb 28 - 11AM
pamela1
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SOS!

After being D&D almost 2 months ago. I had contact with the N this morning that I initiated I know I should not but we have had minimal contact due to my approaching moving date out of his house which is this coming weekend. Well in the last text he wrote

"my heart is bleeding for us over this break up but we are making the right decision"

Than in the next text.

"I think you should get the bigger U-haul for your things"..

I'm so angry with him right now......
And mad at myself for initiating the contact.

I cant wait until this is over...
P.

Feb 29 - 2AM
kartaga
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if i had to see him one more

if i had to see him one more time (like you do), i would mirror everything he says to me that day. "you think so? i think so too!" "i need to do that? you are so right!" "you feel bad? i feel bad too!" "you still think we need to break up? my god, are you reading my mind?! amazing!" a taste of his own medicine. and you over-act, of course.
Feb 28 - 6PM
Redhead
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Horseshit!!! He's still

Horseshit!!! He's still trying to play you!! I'm Always Fine's suggestion is great btw. That's what I'd do.
Feb 28 - 7PM (Reply to #15)
pamela1
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I agree...still trying to

I agree...still trying to string me along...JERK!!!!
Feb 28 - 3PM
neverlookback
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Firstly

If his heart was bleeding he would NOT let you go - what they want, they usually can get - and his heart is not bleeding because he doesnt have a heart to begin with - why is he so concerned with the size of the U'Haul? Wants to make sure you get it all in one trip? wonder how big the U-haul is for the woman moving in? Oh but wait, thats right his heart is bleeding too badly now isnt it? What an actor and he deserves to be boo'd when the curtain comes down after his act - Be glad you are getting out - all you need is a small suitcase when you leave, just big enough to pick up your heart and pack it away and preserve it for someone who is worthy of you -
Feb 28 - 7PM (Reply to #12)
pamela1
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Although I know this weekend

Although I know this weekend will be tough on me in many ways, but overall I know it is the right decision to leave... My friends tell me I got out easy! Could have wasted more time with the N, who I like to refer to as the "tinman"... We deserve so much more.....they are good actors though. Should be a Grammy nomination for mine! Thanks for the feedback... =)
Feb 29 - 2AM (Reply to #13)
Janakita
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What a dramatic, phony asshole!

His poor bleeding heart! Tinman is a great name for him =) Pretending to be a man. Mine was full of this condescending, insincere bs too. "When you cry, I cry 1000x harder inside, I'm afraid I won't find another girl as sweet as you, you will always be a reference in my life as a girl that i truly loved and truly hurt...the shame and sadness will be my punishment. i opened up more to you than to anyone else in my life. i've never hurt someone this bad in my life!" N: Substance=0.00%, Phony F*up= 100.00% Take care Pamela! xoxo
Feb 28 - 12PM
Hunter
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It's a game of insanity..

It's a game of insanity.. Contact = Pain.. All they do is you scrambled eggs on platter.. Words to make your head spin.. No contact dear Pamela. Hunter
Feb 28 - 12PM
Ophelia
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Mine said something similar

Mine said something similar about the D&D, he wrote later and said he felt like such a asshole that night, even though he knew "it had to be done". You know, like putting out the garbage.
Feb 28 - 12PM
Sparrow
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His heart is bleeding, yet he

His heart is bleeding, yet he wants you to get a big enough u-haul to insure ALL of your personal belongings are removed in one swift visit. Geez....if that doesn't spell heartache, I don't know what does. Of course I am kidding........ This weekend, move out your things and never look back. He talks out of both sides of his mouth, always will,they all do. Look at mine....."I love you, miss you terribly, think of you every day, BUT I am not leaving the OW for you" Jackass...........I just don't allow him to say such nonsense to me anymore and you won't either, once this weekend gets over with. Stay strong, pull yourself up by the bootstarps and continue forward. You will get there!
Feb 28 - 12PM
fallingfoward
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What...

a asshole. Get your U-haul and get your things. Shake the dust off your feet, and move on to your new life without him.
Feb 28 - 3PM (Reply to #5)
Im_always_fine
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Pamela, Just for shits and

Pamela, Just for shits and giggles... You should get your things loaded. Sit there revving the U Haul up and JUST PIN IT!...LAY RUBBER!...through all the gears!! Make sure your window is open and let out a LOUD "whiskey yell" as you disappear down the road!! YEEEEEHAWWWWWW!! Hopefully the neighbors will get a giggle too.
Feb 28 - 7PM (Reply to #7)
pamela1
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Good idea!!! Oh the

Good idea!!! Oh the embarrassment this would cause his perfect image. As I start to see through the fog, I feel as if I have been dipped in YUCK!!!!
Feb 28 - 3PM (Reply to #6)
Ophelia
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LOL!

And toot the horn all the way down the street!
Feb 28 - 12PM
spinning
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Well, Pam, if there was

ever any doubt that he's a lying, self-serving idiot, it's all erased now! What a real GEM! I'd like to make his heart bleed alright! Don't beat yourself up for initiating. You have business to finish up. Once it's finished, you'll be done. Get the big U-Haul, grab your things and don't look back. He's so not worth it. His poor, poor, I'm-such-a-sensitive-guy-but-I'm-discarding-you-anyway BS makes me want to puke. Stay strong and hang onto that feeling that it will be OVER SOON AND YOU WILL BE ON YOUR WAY TO A NEW LIFE free of chaos and confusion and pain and open to joy, laughter, peace of mind, fun, and real love. btw, Pamela. I think you are doing great. I am proud of your efforts! Pat yourself on the back. You deserve it. Sincerely, (not) spinning. AND SO GRATEFUL FOR THAT

spinning

Feb 28 - 12PM
Im_always_fine
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You made me laugh... I know

You made me laugh... I know it's not "haha" funny. It's ABSURD!! They are just out of their ever love'n minds!!
Feb 28 - 1PM (Reply to #2)
Snowflake
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Pamela

I would love you to put on the biggest act of your life when you go to pick up things with friends, I want you to laugh, joke and pretend he isnt there..dont be nasty to him, joke about your stuff whatever, but act like you arent bothered. If you can pull off that one I guarantee you will smile in years to come, you will give him the biggest fuck you ever... Cry if you have to later hon but I hope you are able to do that for yourself Better than flipping the bird :)