Something I learned.....
Something I learned.....
I learned something priceless from this whole experience.....
When I questioned the narc or asked him to further explain something, he used to stare at me like a deer in headlights.....I have never seen a grown man look so stupid and dead inside...
As a reaction, I would further explain, defend...raising my voice and bloodpressure....meanwhile, blank look from him.....Eventually he would become enraged and out of control..... (Of course, I created the rage, not him.)
As a result, I have seen this deer in headlights routine as a control ploy to make ME become angry so he could become enraged AND point the finger at me....
I have had others do this in the course of my life but I never thought of it as NPD, more just stupidity or lack of communication......
It's a relationship killer, regardless of NPD or any disorder....communication is key and I will never ever accept anything less than true communication!!!
Yes!
BTE, way to go with this
spinning
betterthanever
we were the opposite
well this hit home for me..