Snooping sucks

Oh I did a huge mistake, I snooped on Fb, saw he is again on the friendlist of this woman he just broke up with.

Oh boy did that stab me in my heart...I swear to god, i will never ever snoop again!

faithinthefuture's picture

only confirms what we already know. and then some. but they'll deny what we find and turn it on us & say we're jealous and insecure. Of course it has NOTHING to do with the fact they are thee reason we snoop. And tie him to a tree or shoot him...hmmm I'd rather cut off his dick but then I think it's probably so infected it's going to fall off someday anyway. So I just think about that...and smile. :-)
Susan32's picture

The ex-Psych professor would've accused YOU of snooping because you trudged through 2 pages of "Wittgenstein, Tolstoy, and the Meaning of Life." He accused ME of snooping, of making copies of it(??),selling them(???) and mocking him (????) Yeesh--it's not as if I had found something intimate on him at a dating website... I mean... WTH... I remember telling him (this was freshman year),"it's an ESSAY, NOT something about your family or your sex life." The fact he's too lazy to have it yanked from the internet by now says something about HIS passivity and stupidity. He had a major diva fit over that essay. Well, he also didn't like the idea of "War and Peace" being made into a musical (I was only joking,but he took much offense).... wait till GLEE makes it into one... I can imagine the narcissistic Prince Andrei singing "I'm pretty, oh so pretty, I'm pretty and witty and wise."
jen79's picture

since he texted me again, I told him to never write to me again and to leave me in peace, that I know he is back with her anyway. Got two texts then, No I am not, and: erratic and unstable. I watched then what this erratic means, since he told me lately when he raged again at me that i am eratic, I thought he ment erotic, but now I know he is raging at me the damn son of a bitch. damn I need damn money to buy me that damn app to blocking him, cause on my damn phone you see the message before open it.... Ok back to jobhunting
chickon2's picture

You are a feisty lil thing.... The actor better watch is cry baby back...:-)
blueeyes's picture

Thanks for the smile! I'm pissed today too! I really hate the fluctuation of emotions! I know the anger is healing me and I'm thankful. I just can't help it that sometimes I wish he was tied to a tree and I was free to beat him. Get it all out!
jen79's picture

Well i am happy I am not the only one, sometimes I imagine having a gun and shooting him loool....three times in the head...
Susan32's picture

Because Ns/Ps should know BETTER than NOT to mess with empaths! Their weaknesses are obvious. They're gullible, they can be tricked, they can be oblivious to people's intentions. I'd respond to the ex-P in kind, subjecting him to the same mental abuse he used on me... He preyed on my weaknesses, used my personal information against me... I'd use the same against him. It would be like a police interrogation, with the bare swinging lightbulb, going on for hours without bathroom breaks and food. I'd deal him so many narc injuries he'd find life unbearable... but he'd be on suicide watch and be unable to accomplish it....* I'd break him down. *I've watched too much CSI.
mystwoman's picture

No, you're not the only one. A gun would be too easy for my xhn. I think dragging him behind the car might do it. If he looks like he's passing out, slow down and let him revive a little...then hit the gas again. Not that he's actually worth the gas I'd waste. lol. Yep, I sense that I have some anger issues going today, too.

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jen79's picture

never had any murdering fantasies before I met him, holy jesus christ loool.
blueeyes's picture

I don't want to murder him. I don't care if he dies. I would just like the chance to beat the living crap out of him while he is defenseless tied to a tree. ;)
betty2020's picture

Smart choice my girl, smart choice. No need to inflict pain and misery upon yourself at this stage of the game. You will never like what you see in the end. He has already shown you who he is. All your answers have already been given to you. Work on accepting and believing them. only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

chickon2's picture

no more snooping chickie.. See? it sux... Just plain sux. Everytime I have had the urge, I have come here to read.. So far so good... Hugs for your heart...
blueeyes's picture

I hate that feeling. I snoop and find nothing and it hurts! I can't imagine finding hurtful things. Mine is too needy and lazy to find OW. I will tell you it doesn't hurt anyless because I assume there is another supply. I was the queen snooper! I went to great lenghths to spy. Whew, now your NC is fucked up. Damn, I'm sorry you feel bad. Jen, remember he is not real. I need to remind myself too.