Smart Dating

I'm not ready to date yet. (Only 5-1/2 months NC)
However I am going to be PREPARED this time for sure!
I got these rules (or commandments) from another website.
Going to add one more, #11

10 Rules of Smart Dating

1. Have boundaries.
2. Don't allow yourself to be treated as an option.
3. Don't let yourself be used for sex.
4. Only date with your self-esteem in tow.
5. You have to share common values with your partners.
6. It's imperative to date beyond your comfort zone of 'type'.
7. Don't let your sexual organs make decisions for you.
8. Don't ever, ever, ever, ever, ever get involved with attached people - FLUSH!
9. Don't let yourself be managed via text/email etc.
10. Be a person of action & trust your gut!
11. If your gut says, "I think this guy might be a narc."
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>RUN LIKE THE WIND!

feel free to add more rules...we have to make wise choices and not let this devastation ever happen to us again.
we have a choice now.

-fefe