Sisterhood and the OW...?
Sisterhood and the OW...?
I have reason to suspect that the OW is possibly experiencing her D&D right now.
(if you know my story, you know that I was not physically involved with my Narc, but became quadrangulated between the Narc, his wife and the OW - how's that for Narc drama?)
While I've never particularly liked her, I can't help but feel her pain right now. I've contemplated contacting her, but know that I WON'T. (I can hear a lot of you chanting NC! NC! NC! right now, but I'm working through this, and its my process... my head and heart are at odds a lot.)
And the other thing that's going on in my head right now, is not a vindictive "see?!? I told you so!" kind of thing, but rather a bit of affirmation in knowing that I was right to recognize the pattern of the Narc, and realize that it WASN'T ABOUT ME, it truly is just what he does, and he'll do it again.
Its been SO helpful to me to learn everything I can about NPD to help make sense of what I've been through.
When I think about other people who have NO IDEA what is going on or why, the empath in me really has to fight the urge to reach out to them... (Mrs. Narc, and now the OW)
Have any of you felt any kind of sisterhood to the OW after she was D&D'd too? Have you acted on it?
(We all know that NC is the best answer here, but I'm trying to learn through other people's experiences....)
Thanks... and please put down the NC cluestick. LOL
"You are my sister"
I haven't been contacted by
My ex P spouse
The OW's D & D
Like I said, I'm just trying
I wouldn't call it sisterhood
Sparrow, you post hit home
That's a good one...
Triangulation is SICK!
I like your analogy of the
I wanted to contact the new