Sex While Sleeping

OMG! Mine does this all the time. He often waits until I am deeply sound asleep...then does all sorts of sexual maneuvers and keeps waking me up. Ususally it is after midnight and we have to be up early for work. And of course I am sound asleep and can't really get all excited and want sex...so he will pout and complain his 'needs' aren't being met. I have actually tried inviting him to bed for sex at a reasonable hour...like during an afternoon 'nap' or earlier in the evening, BEFORE I am asleep..when I ask him to come to bed...he says "What for?'...I guess it is the fact that I am still awake that is the turn-off...HAHAHA! He also uses this to excuse his being on porn every night. He will go downstairs and get on the computer and view porn for hours...waiting until I am asleep...and even though he is sexually spent from all his self pleasuring with his internet harem, he will wake me up pretending to want sex...knowing I won't be ready for sex (and actually neither is he because he had it with himself several times already...)He will then say later that he keeps wanting sex and I won't give it to him...and he has his needs...oh his 'needs'...HIS all consuming NEEDS!!! (also justifies his cheating this way too)...pathetic JERK!

I've heard many men say that this is their fantasy..To have a woman wake them up in the middle of the night for sex. Maybe that's one of the reasons they do it. Also, control.

I can't believe this is posted, I thought I was alone! My N husband does this all the time when I don't have sex with him. He waits until I am asleep then he does what ever he wants! This is so wrong. I feel abused, he loves telling me about it. It makes me sick.

My first N (first husband of 12 years and father of our daughter) used to bother me while I was trying to sleep too! Sometimes, he'd lift up the covers and re-arrange my nightgown so he could "pleasure" himself. He was a sick nutcase who is now unable to rent an apartment because his credit is so bad. He's a con man, a shyster and a schemer who has been in prison. I still can't believe some of the crap he pulled. Just reading all the stories on here validates what I went through with him. He was a complete Narcissistic Psychopath....or is it a Psychopathic Narcissist? Getting away from him (because we were married and had a child together) was very difficult. I truly wish that I had been able to logon to this site 20 years ago....it would have been a great comfort. neveragain

He did do that to the gf after me. She said he never wanted to have sex with her (he would rather jack off!) but sometimes she would wake up to him doing things to her while she was sleeping & it would totally creep her out! They are freaks! By the way, even though she & I have never met, she said she would testify for me in court about is raging anger, instability, & suicidal threats. He did do the marathon sex with me...(barf!)