Seriously, I just met another one....

Well, I'm not sure how I do it, but I met another one!!!! I met him through friends and intially had a great time! He is nice, funny, attractive, smart....the whole package....except....he seems to shy away from intimacy. Every time we have a great weekend together he won't contact me for a few days following it.....THEN I get an email stating he may not be ready for a relationship, etc......So I go on my merry way....then I hear from him again with some excuse about getting over his ex-girlfriend, being too busy, or feeling I wasn't into the relationship.....I would love to be his friend but a relationship seems impossible. Again, I feel I have encountered a Narc but perhaps a Borderline....hard to tell which. He says his life used to always be driven by "Ego" which I think says it all......

I'm frustrated!!!