seduction techniques

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CaminoReal
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seduction techniques

I was researching and found an article (blog) that describes the tactics of a seductress. Read it and tell me if you think these are the same techniques of our Narcs. If you want to read the whole article you can find it on: www.blogher.com/bad-girls-get-all-guys
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Bad Girls Get All the Guys
September 27, 2011 5:16 am by avflox in Love & Sex

A seductress casts a spell by making herself very available at the beginning of a relationship so it appears to be less work and less risk for the man. But then, when he has grown used to her attentions and charms, she suddenly makes herself unavailable for a seemingly unbearable period of time -- though always with a reasonable explanation. Whatever her reason, she ensures her object of interest doesn’t feel abandoned, simply aware that by not having pinned her to a commitment, he could very well lose her.

“She is like a skilled fisherman,” says psychiatrist Carole Lieberman. “She lets the bait dangle close to the fish’s mouth, then she pulls it away. Then she lets it dangle, then she pulls it away, with the soft to-and-fro of the current, until the next time the fish sees the bait, he can’t help but swallow it, hook, line and sinker.”

This tactic is something Lieberman calls the “bait-and-switch” and it is one of the many tricks that “bad girls” use to get the guys they want – tricks that so-called “good girls” would do well to learn.

AV Flox is the section editor of Love & Sex on BlogHer. You can connect with her on Twitter @avflox,

Oct 4 - 11PM
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yes this is exactly what my N

yes this is exactly what my N did to me. horrible too