The roller coaster ride continues....
The roller coaster ride continues....
Damn this is the worse roller coaster ride I have ever been on. I usually like them and think hey are fun. I like to go to the amusment park and ride the real big ones. I hate this one though. It's never ending and I JUST WANT OFF THE RIDE!
Good days and bad days. Empowering days and emotional days. Today is an emotional day. I know read, read, read, write, write, write, read some more/write some more. Distract myself. Get lost in my work. Exercise. Do not wallow in self pity or self doubt. I did nothing wrong. It's not me! NO CONTACT! I joined the support group and it was wonderful. Looking forward to the next one. Doing my homework. In counseling.
Today is just one of those emotional days. Can't stop crying and hurting. I am so angry. I invested a lot in the r/s (just like everyone else on here) I invested myself, my heart, my life, my kids, my love. I was vulnerable. I let him in when he'd allow it and then I'd fight to get him back in when he was distant. I was real. It was real. It wasn't a game to me. I realize that was not how he played, I realize it was not real and I was just an object. My head knows and I am fighting to get my heart on the same page. I know CD...I have read about it again and again and again. Just ugh!
I am going to do something BIG with this lesson. I keep telling myself that. I will do something to get my power back. Something is BIG waiting for me right around the corner.
Thanks all.
still moving forward
Something you posted on
Me too!
You're not alone
You will have set backs.
Well said Sparrow.. Or drink
Look forward