Remembering last year

It was a year ago this weekend since the final d&d. I had been out with my friends and bumped into him in a pub and gone back to his flat with him. The following day was horrific, he just discarded me and my friends came to rescue me, they put me in the bath and then put me to bed and I slept for hours and then woke up to the real start of this journey. The final time I ever spoke to him was a year ago today when I told him that I was done with his games and that he would never play cat and mouse with me again. Then the phone call from a poor woman came who narc had rung to tell her that I was having an affair with her husband!!! He had been at my house recently to fix the dish washer when narc was still around! I told my counsellor all about it the following Wednesday and that's when she showed me a piece of paper with the cycle of abuse on and told me about npd.
It all made sense to me from that day .
Breaking away from the narc has been the hardest thing I have been through . The spinning , the not believing that someone could be so cruel, getting through the addiction to him , the smear campaigns , all of it has been horrible. But I'm here, I survived it and its possible to rebuild your life again after these freaks finally get the message that you won't put up with anymore of their games.
I took my first accountancy exam on Friday , it's going to be a long path to get to where I want to be now but who would have thought that broken girl a year ago who couldn't even stand up properly when her friends came to get her from his flat, could now be studying and taking exams and seeing a future for herself?
Have a good week everyone, onwards and upwards xx