Relationship saving,,all we put up with
Relationship saving,,all we put up with
Whatever2009 made a comment that floored me,,the things her exN said to her about her gf's and that "he couldn't help himself" shows how proud the N is of their disorder.
Do not be fooled,,it is a 'disorder' meaning 'causing chaos' or "BIG TIME TROUBLE"
For those of us who are talented, and desire to make a CONTRIBUTION in the world,,this becomes an incredible relationship.
When we get with these people, we have that creative edge and get into the relationship saving mode,,especially when the N tells us things like "he knows it takes work,,its okay honey,,lets work on it" and meanwhile he is taking his money out of the bank,,doing' yet another woman,,telling you crap.
We thought these were endearing qualities,,right? Like they wanted help from us.
GREED and disgust comes to mind when I now think of the exN, and how,,after cheating on his live it with me,,then asked me if I would do a threesome,,I left him so quick you would not believe,,only to call and txt him on the way home that I wanted to "work it out"
What is up with that? Why would we a..be put in that situation and b..let him off the hook ?
It seems a common pattern here!!
Amazed?????
the web they weave....
The have an endearing side.
narc can't control themselves?
He wanted my help and that