Red Flags

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#1 Apr 26 - 9AM
lilygirl
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Red Flags

Today is 1 month NC. I was contemplating why I didn't run in the beginning?

Here are some of my red flags. Have to say his being a Dr did throw me.

1. He masturbated the first time he called me.
2. He ignored me on our first get away & played his guitar all day.

3. He brought up swinger sex on our first date.
4. He sent me porn videos.
5. He never answered my calls.
6. His house & car were pig Styx.
7. Told me when he was married & his wife was staying at home taking care of three kids that the least she could've done was give him a blowjob after work.
8. He was drunk & stoned most of the time.
9. He told me to give a friend of mine a blowjob so he would dog sit longer.
10. Constantly sent me emails saying he wanted to watch me s & f another man.
11. He watched porn 2 to 3 hours a day.

Dah!!! Was it shock or curiousity that got me to stay?

Apr 29 - 8AM
midnight7
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Hindsight is wonderful thing.

Apr 29 - 8AM (Reply to #36)
Reason2Believe
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Now I only trust my gut

Apr 29 - 8AM
SundaySmile
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just gross

Apr 28 - 7AM
eyeswideopen35
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pre marriage red flags.. just

Apr 27 - 10AM
pamela11
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They are ALL the same. They

Apr 27 - 10AM
Janie53
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RED FLAG

Apr 27 - 10AM (Reply to #31)
jaime17
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Don't I know it, Janie.

Apr 26 - 9PM
Reason2Believe
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My Red Flags

Apr 26 - 10PM (Reply to #24)
lilygirl
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reason2believe

Apr 27 - 6AM (Reply to #25)
Reason2Believe
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What's love got to do with it....

Apr 27 - 9AM (Reply to #26)
lilygirl
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anger

Apr 27 - 4PM (Reply to #27)
Reason2Believe
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Frustrated

Apr 27 - 4PM (Reply to #28)
lilygirl
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Emotionally unavailable

Apr 27 - 5PM (Reply to #29)
Reason2Believe
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Arg....

Apr 26 - 3PM
ruby01 (not verified)
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That's the kind of stuff

Apr 26 - 10AM
Hunter
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Oh Well.. When the CD sets

Apr 26 - 10AM (Reply to #15)
lilygirl
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devil

Apr 26 - 11AM (Reply to #20)
spinning
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Sweet Lil, mine was also

spinning

Apr 26 - 11AM (Reply to #21)
lilygirl
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change

Apr 26 - 11AM (Reply to #16)
Hunter
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No my story got deleted in

Apr 26 - 4PM (Reply to #18)
Trainwreck56
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That FUCKING FIEND!

Apr 26 - 4PM (Reply to #19)
lilygirl
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getting worse

Apr 26 - 11AM (Reply to #17)
lilygirl
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your story

Apr 26 - 10AM (Reply to #14)
Janie53
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Excellent point Hunter

Apr 26 - 10AM
Sparrow
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Red Flags have been ignored

Apr 26 - 10AM
Movingforwardnow
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I was with the same guy

Apr 26 - 10AM
deadenddreamer
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Similar Flags

Apr 26 - 10AM (Reply to #7)
lilygirl
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dream last night

Apr 28 - 8AM (Reply to #8)
neverlookback
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HOW FUNNY

Apr 28 - 9AM (Reply to #9)
lilygirl
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neverlookback