Red Flags~
Red Flags~
What were some of your most obvious red flags right from the get go? Mine...
He fell for me immediately... so quickly that I was scratching my head trying to figure out what exactly he liked about me bc he hardly knew me.
PUSH/PULL/PUSH/PULL/PUSH/PULL
He TOLD me he had cheated on his wife with other women!!! (My God... how did i not RUN as far and as fast as I could upon that revelation??)
He HATES his parents. I mean, DESPISES THEM.
His dad cheated on his mom throughout their marriage... and, yes, they are still married. Again... he hates his dad and has NO respect for his mom.
He's a COP!!! (AND he told me that virtually EVERY ONE of his cop colleagues were married, but had girlfriends on the side-- it's the norm where he works.)
He has no friends.
He always accused ME of lying... I would actually tell him that the people who accuse others of lying do so bc it is they who are the liars and so they figure everyone else lies, too.
He told me that his wife always thought he had a drinking problem and that he hid alcohol that he bought from her (numbing himself bc at that time he may not of had another outlet for his narc addiction?)
DRAMA. DRAMA.DRAMA
Was very much stalker-ish. Obsessed with my Facebook profile... and I caught him doing a "drive-by" one night.
Share some of yours so we all know what to look out for in the future!
Hot/Cold
An interesting red flag...
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victimnomore
Red flags
There were lots of red flags
Wow! So simliar to mine. I
Mine was like that too
Same thoughts and feelings