A really stupid question
A really stupid question
I already know the answer. Did you all have to play by the Narcs' rules. Yes, of course. Did you ever try to enforce your rules, and have them bite you in the ass? Happened to me all the time. I decided midway through it was just better to play it on his terms, less stressful that way. So, when he called, I answered. When he wanted to meet, I did. When he broke a lunch date, I was understanding. I did everything I could to make his world happy, and convinced myself that if he was happy, I was happy.
Then, I flipped -- after the 3-month silent treatment. I didn't feel like playing by his rules anymore. I figured I did that for 8 years, and all I got from it was a world of hurt.
They really are masters, aren't they? They figure us out, learn how to pull our strings, and then lead us around until they snip the strings or we cut them.
Sorry about this. It's just that I miss him, or at least I miss the man I thought he was. I'm struggling today, and don't know why. Tomorrow will be better.
clear eyes
Yes...absolutely. What I
The rules were always changing.
abreva
I don't miss playing by his
Clear Eyes
Playing by their rules...
HelpMeHeal,
Every day is a new day, and
I agree, Sparrow
Wonderful giving people...
Of Course
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