Quick flashes of anger

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#1 Feb 26 - 6PM
Nothanx
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Quick flashes of anger

Anyone else's Narc get really mad or huffy, and storm out, only to call in like 20 minutes like the fight never happened? Mine would be furious and we would get into a spat (over something big or small) and then he would call on his way home like "hey whats going on". It was like he was an etch-a-sketch and erased it all. Also he would react big to a weird things like My cheesecake tuning out better than his did, but be totally unaffected by big things like me telling him I think he is gay or that I am still love my 1st husband. (He used to get me so upset that I would lash out with some of the meanest things you could imagine. Example: You are socially retarded and that is why you don't have any friends. Or: The reason your Mom and whole family don't keep in touch with you is that you are weird and annoying.)He acted like he was not bothered by these comments at all, almost like he couldn't hear me.

Feb 27 - 6AM
agnesmurphy17
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He doesn't hear you

"He acted like he was not bothered by these comments at all, almost like he couldn't hear me." He doesn't hear you. You are an object. There is no communication. Only him, his thoughts, his rants! Even his words are meaningless. Boy! If I had said 1/16 to my N as you said to your N, I would have been murdered, or serious bodily harm. Mine was so hyper-sensitive to any perceived slight which was no even there . . . a real slight would have taken over the edge. Mine would come back in a bout 2-3 days as if nothing ever happened. 2-3 days silence in the house where we lived because we were married. This was in a 7-10 day cycle. So, I counted once because I kept a diary, 33% of my life was spent in silence with N ignoring me. But, I was expected to "service" him . . . dinner, laundry, etc. I think he started talking again because he had to say something & be nice to get sex. Can't have sex with somebody whom you have made clear you never want anything to do with them ever again.
Feb 27 - 5AM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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classic behavior

that's a classic behavior in Narcs..once of the worst, IMO...because it drives you nuts........... My blog
Feb 26 - 9PM
rache
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all

the time.
Feb 26 - 7PM
Barbara (not verified)
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you mean like this?

http://www.lisaescott.com/forum/2009/03/29/when-they-act-it-didnt-happen ~~~~~~~~~ The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein Visit My Info. Website for Abuse Victims