Question on NC maintenance

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#1 Aug 20 - 11AM
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Question on NC maintenance

I don't want to unnecessarily worry about what may not even come to pass...

But being that the best defense can be a good offense, I find myself wanting to be prepared...

I've been doing SO good in NC...And he is staying the hell away from me. This is how I want it.

The phone/email/technology department...CHECK! Daily life stuff...a little bit more dicey but CHECK! This is because the N and I live 6 miles away from each other and there's the off chance of an unintentional run in...I plan on IGNORING if I have the bad luck to find myself in the same public place as him and then removing myself from said place ASAP... Lots of scanning the parking lot for his car these days when I'm doing something as simple as running to my local CVS drugstore...Annoying but worth it as I'm not LOOKING for an opportunity to test my FEIGNED INDIFFERENCE acting skills...(REAL indifference WILL come in time I hope...just too...all kinds of everything...for it right now!). I am also staying away from "hot spots" ...namely restaurants/bars we used to frequent together as I figure there's a higher likelihood of a "run in"...

What my question regards is how to handle one of his "pop ins" to my workplace should it occur...My specific situation is this: I work in a small shop, ALONE, it's a store that anyone can just walk on into...this is how I received an unexpected Hoover some time ago and I set myself back big time...Now that I know more to "expect the unexpected" I am wondering how to handle it should he pull another one of these "pop ins"...It'd be hard to remain mute and pretend he is invisible in a space the size of my living room...yet I don't want to give any reaction that "feeds" him...I am at a loss for the perfect "one liner", what to do PERIOD should the situation arise, and any advice would be appreciated.

Hopefully the it's just the full moon making me feel nervous today...

Aug 20 - 10PM
Trixy
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how to prepare for seeing the ex

Aug 20 - 1PM
talktothehand
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Dallas

Aug 20 - 1PM (Reply to #5)
Dallas
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Hi talktothehand

Aug 20 - 6PM (Reply to #6)
Kitka
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Now that is fecking funny.

Aug 20 - 1PM
fefe65
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act like he is invisible to

Aug 20 - 1PM (Reply to #2)
Dallas
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Yep FeFe65!

Aug 20 - 9PM (Reply to #3)
fefe65
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Dallas